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Hyperion123ParticipantSeptember 4, 2015 at 1:47 pm #85126
Been dating this woman for about 3 months. We enjoy each others company. She is a general manager, divorced with 2 kids (i.e. very busy). We made plans on Tuesday to watch a movie on Saturday. We arranged times and finalized the date. I texted her on Thursday (Just a “Hope things are going good”). Never heard back from her, which was odd. Kind of annoyed me. Texted her this morning…She did text me back and seemed ok. Do I need to worry about this? Should I re-confirm our plans for Saturday?
da2783ParticipantSeptember 5, 2015 at 4:57 pm #85159
What you want to try to avoid is communicating your anxiety/worry through your actions. Do you think there’s an actual need to reconfirm the plans? Then do so. If not, leave it. I think what both you and I need to “worry” about is do we or are we dating women that are insensitive and not invested? If this is an isolated incident, let it go. If this is familiar and she doesn’t seem to care much about how her actions effect you…major red flag.
12mustangjennParticipantSeptember 6, 2015 at 3:50 pm #85203
I don’t see a problem with a reconfirmed of plans. Maybe something along the lines of, “is this time still good for you?” If she doesn’t get back to you, or does but doesn’t mention the plans, I would not bring it up again, and move on. You would have just placed the ball in her court, up to her to return it.
KellyroseParticipantSeptember 6, 2015 at 4:41 pm #85207
She got a busy job and kids, sometimes you just chase time trying to get everything done. Don’t push to hard, otherwise you will scare her off.
binhParticipantSeptember 6, 2015 at 7:46 pm #85208
You need not confirm the plans. Declare the plans again with a great amount of aggression. Like a dragon. Call her phone and scream plans at top of your voice “SATURDAY, 7 O’CLOCK, MOVIE”. Hang up. Wait 30 seconds and call again. This time scream “PLAAAAAAAAAAAAANS”. If she does not obey you, send a vial of rabbit’s urine to her home to let her know that she is a disgrace.
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