What to do?

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What to do?

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    cluelessJUSTIN
    cluelessJUSTIN
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    April 9, 2020 at 10:13 am #232675
    What to do?

    So I have a problem. I have not had a date in 6 years. I take my sport really seriously and as a result I don’t drink alcohol, smoke, eat take out or even drink soda. I train two sessions a day and a gym session in my lunch break. I have done everything I can do in my preparation to beat my opponents including not going to social events. The trouble is I get jealous thinking about how others have someone to go home to and someone to wake up too. Have I completely alleviated my chances of meeting females because I don’t go to social events or is it my serious nature? I know having someone in my life will definitely effect my current lifestyle. Again I ask what to do?

    Misakii
    Misakii
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    April 10, 2020 at 7:20 am #232679

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    tephros
    tephros
    Participant
    April 12, 2020 at 3:16 am #232723

    A serious nature can make it harder for dating to go well, but if that’s who you are there are serious girls out there too. Whatever kind of dating you choose, it’ll take some time and probably a lot of trial and error.

    First, just approach girls who look like they might be available, not too busy at the moment, and are attractive and chat. If the chat goes well, see if she wants to do some fun date with you or just get her number and figure it out later.

    Another approach is that you probably have a good body from your sport, so that could work to your advantage on dating sites if there’s a good picture of you doing your sport and showing off your body. Bathroom selfies are considered lame. Get a friend to be your photographer if necessary. Try photofeeler to get a clue as to what a good picture of you is.

    Maybe you could join a meetup group to try to find a girl with a shared interest, but only if you would enjoy doing the activity even if you don’t find somebody there.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    April 13, 2020 at 10:49 am #232756

    One old adage goes: “All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.”
    The goal should be to live a healthy {well balanced} life.

    “I get jealous thinking about how others have someone to go home to and someone to wake up too.”

    Bear in mind YOU are CHOOSING to live the way you do. There’s nothing for you to be jealous of.
    On the other hand it’s possible you are {using your sport} to HIDE behind.
    Maybe you’ve NEVER been comfortable meeting and engaging with girls/women.

    Most of the top athletes and champions in the world all seem to be able to have girlfriends, wives, and families.
    In fact girls and groupies tend to be attracted to star athletes, celebrities, or guys in any form of the spotlight.
    They’re normally are drawn to guys who are handsome/in great shape, successful, personable, with a great sense of humor.

    Lastly just because you don’t eat or drink certain things doesn’t mean your girlfriend can’t enjoy those things.
    As long as two people aren’t trying to “change each other” they should be able to get along or compromise.

    “If you want something bad enough you will find a way and if you don’t you will find an excuse.” – Jim Rohn