What to do about mixed signals from a girl?

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What to do about mixed signals from a girl?

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    ajanderson88
    ajanderson88
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    May 4, 2018 at 9:27 pm #172242
    What to do about mixed signals from a girl?

    Hi all. I recently posted a thread on here about initiating contact with a girl I haven’t talk to in about a month. Long story short, we went out about 2 months ago and hit it off. After the date we started talking a lot more. Everything was going great, then one night out of nowhere she told me she didn’t know how she felt about me, but said she wanted to go out again. After about a week of not talking to eachother, she sent me a flirty snapchat. The very next day,I texted her asking if she was wanting to go out the upcoming weekend. For the first time ever she didn’t reply. It was odd because she snapchatted me the night before.

    Note: we met in January, and it’s May now. I haven’t texted her since I tried asking her out for a second date. I initiated contact with her for the first time in 3 weeks because she started liking my Instagram pics again. She replies to me, but is short in her responses. I want to just cut to the chase, but i know that makes girls uncomfortable.

    cottonhollow
    cottonhollow
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    May 4, 2018 at 9:51 pm #172248

    Just be upfront and ask her, that’s probably the best you can do

    Jblue2367
    Jblue2367
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    May 4, 2018 at 9:55 pm #172254

    Kinda sounds like a similar situation that I have as well. What I would do is just brush it off and see if she hits you up again. If you text her first, do not mention going out again. See if she brings it up first. If she does, then maybe she just happened to be busy or she was chillin with some friends or something. However, when she said that she wasn’t sure how she felt about you, it sounds like she either really doesn’t know what she wants out of dating, or you’re just one of a number of options. Remember, this is just an opinion of mine, so don’t freak out.

    frank6789
    frank6789
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    May 5, 2018 at 1:00 pm #172293

    Just give her time and space. She may not know how she feels about you, or if she wants to be in a relationship at the moment. You can’t decide those things for her. If you constantly try and reach out to her when she isn’t responding you’ll seem overbearing.