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What are you waiting for? One mouse click could be all that stands between you and your next romance!November 22, 2017 at 10:08 pm #157268
I met up with this girl from online about a week ago.
We hit it off, had a good first date, got really drunk, and things got more physical than they usually do on a first date.
I went out to dinner with her a few days later and it also went well, though we just did some kissing.
I went out of town for thanksgiving and have initiated a few texts with her. She has replied within a few hours or so, reciprocating whatever question I asked but not really being too talkative. So last night I, stupidly, figure why not call her on the phone and keep the conversation active. She didn’t answer and I left a 5 second voicemail to give me a call back if she’s around. No call back. Now what?
confuseddater92ParticipantNovember 23, 2017 at 3:37 pm #157287
Just send her a text and ask hey I enjoyed your company, would you like to see me again and if she ignores you know the answer
I think honesty is the best
lovingyou88ParticipantNovember 23, 2017 at 11:33 pm #157307
i feel like he is not interesting, but better to talk with him first.
seeekerParticipantNovember 27, 2017 at 2:34 pm #157477
You can’t push these things. Online dating is such a random minefield, you rarely know where you stand. Just remember she’s probably dating other guys, so don’t waste too much money on her. Sounds like your first couple of encounters were very normal, enjoyable, so who knows.
Everyone (mostly women) says they don’t want to play games, but that’s all this is. It’s a big game. But you can be the adult. All you can do is text her one last time and yeah, honesty is best. “Hey I really enjoyed our time together so far, hope you had a nice holiday, would love to see you again. Haven’t heard form you lately, so do reach out when you can or if you’re still interested.” Maybe not word for word but something like that.
EkovvvParticipantNovember 28, 2017 at 6:59 pm #157673
Don’t be too clingy, send her a simple text like the people above already advised, and leave it at that. Some girls will get more talkytalky if you’re not the one talking all the time. Give her some space that might help and meanwhile just get out there, go on other dates and see where that goes.
GFR_DayParticipantNovember 28, 2017 at 10:26 pm #157690
All you can do is make the effort, if it’s not returned, move on.
TTGParticipantNovember 29, 2017 at 2:30 pm #157781
With no call back, I would just move forward without bringing it up. Some people are texters, some callers, some neither. Continue your path and if you feel like you are getting signs that she is no longer as interested you can make a better decision.
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