What was my mistake?


What was my mistake?

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    December 1, 2017 at 5:53 pm #158346
    What was my mistake?

    I’ve recently went on a date with a girl. I thought that the date was going fine, we talked a lot, it seemed that we connected on some level. I walked her home. She told me that she had a great time and that she was surprised that we could connect on our first date this quickly on this level. So we arrived at her house. I asked her if she wanted to meet again and she said yes. We looked at each other, and then after some seconds she kissed me on the cheek and we said goodbye.
    In 3 days time I wrote her a message asking if she’d be free to meet again. She wrote back to me after 2 weeks and told me she was sorry for not answering sooner but she didn’t know what to say before. She said that she had a great time and she thinks that I’m likable but she is not looking for a friend. She told me that she thinks that this was going nowhere.
    I’m pretty bad at dating and I have no idea how could she arrive at that thought after just 1 date.
    Any thoughts?