What would you do if your girlfriend was doing this?

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What would you do if your girlfriend was doing this?

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    shadowplex456
    shadowplex456
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    April 24, 2018 at 4:34 pm #171605
    What would you do if your girlfriend was doing this?

    My girlfriend and I have been dating just about 1 year. We have had our ups and downs that generally lie around what we’re doing after college graduation. However, every now and then I’ll have an issue with how she’s talking to some guy(s) on Snapchat or text. I know she’s not physically cheating on me because I would have found that out by now, but she definitely lets these guys over-extend their text to her. For instance, one guy is saying “Hey we should hangout something together. Only you though no one else.” And she didn’t reply. So, I mention the guys name and she gets super defensive for time saying that he’s such a nice guy. But why wouldn’t she text the guy back and be like “I have a boyfriend and neither him or I would feel it’s appropriate for us to hangout alone.”

    Would it be back for me to look through her phone to find more evidence on these guys? If I find evidence, how should I bring it question her?

    Ant
    Ant
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    May 1, 2018 at 7:55 am #171899

    I wouldn’t look back through her phone. If she cares about you she will stick around. It’s not as if she has cheated on you in anyway and if she ignored the other guys remarks that’s good too. Personally I always trust someone up until they do betray me.