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[CamelBoy]

September 7, 2017 at 11:55 pm #148562

WhatsApp Messages – How do I proceed with her

We met on Tinder 8 weeks ago

We have been on 6 dates, sex on the last 4 of those (TMI?) and been texting constantly for those 2 months. Awesome.

She works in education and so during the past 6 weeks hadn’t been working, but returned to work on Monday.

Since Monday she had been very slow in replying to messages. Almost 24 hours on one occasion. I get shes busy with work

So Wed I asked her plans and tried to arrange a date. She replied Thur evening with the following

‘Hope your day was ok at least it’s Friday tomorrow. I really dont know what we week is looking like. Im really sory. Im feeling totally swamped and overwhelmed with work stuff at the moment and i really dont know if i can commit to anything. Im sorry, but I dont wanna be messing you around x’

Me: ‘Dont be sorry, thats fine, Hope it gets better at work soon and im sure it will’

Her ‘I feel awful and of course I am sorry.x’

Should I reply? It worries me she gave no alternative. Maybe ignoring will make her want me ?

[LeeBrando]

September 9, 2017 at 5:51 pm #148674

I’d just tell her the sex was awesome so let’s keep it casual and see what happens later 😉

[viviva]

September 12, 2017 at 1:34 pm #148785

definitely ignore her..its her job to come back to you now if shes interested …if you dont hear from her she’s not interested.

[Patsy26]

September 13, 2017 at 11:54 am #148890

if you like her, maybe try send a message again in a few days and see where it takes you.

[klin]

September 14, 2017 at 3:34 am #148984

Give her time

[Louis Richards]

September 14, 2017 at 12:43 pm #149042

I totally agree