When should I ask her out

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When should I ask her out

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    November 28, 2018 at 6:37 pm #190181
    When should I ask her out

    Hi guys, I’ve had very little dating experience. I created a thread a while ago but circumstances have changed.

    I’ve had very little experience and neither has the girl I’m wanting to ask out, we click very well and we talk quite a lot, she will talk to me in science lessons over some of her close friends that are in the class.

    The only thing is that I don’t know how to go about asking her out. I’m not an absolute pleb but I really don’t know when to try. I’m pretty confident that she would say yes because we get on well and she doesn’t have any experience dating. Do I ask her out now or should we get to know each other more.

    Also in your experiences (this part is entirely subjective obviously) what is best for a first date, I’m 15 so I think that the classic dinner would be far too formal, based on all I can think of it would come down to bowling and a movie. What is best in your experiences

    coolaij
    coolaij
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    November 29, 2018 at 11:09 pm #190289

    when she ishappy u can ask her out

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    December 2, 2018 at 3:11 pm #190403

    “I’m pretty confident that she would say yes because we get on well and she doesn’t have any experience dating.”
    If your above statement is true then ask her out!
    Nothing ventured nothing gained.

    Best wishes!

    Atrasutra
    Atrasutra
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    December 4, 2018 at 10:30 am #190450

    There is nothing more that attracts women than confidence. I would ask her after a lesson. Chat a small talk and then say casually say, by the way, do you wanna grab a drink after a lesson sometime?

    ITguy93
    ITguy93
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    December 13, 2018 at 12:02 am #190976

    Definitely go for it. If you don’t, you will regret it.

    PinkFlareon
    PinkFlareon
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    December 13, 2018 at 12:36 am #190978

    So bowling is a great idea. It’s not too mug pressure, there’s food, and friendly competition. My advice to save movies for later. The things, you can’t get to know her during the film. Sure, talking about it afterwards is great, but you want to save movies for when light cuddling is appropriate and okay. Just sort of invite her and make it fun. Do something like “hey, you want to go bowling? I know a really cool place. But wait… burgers or chicken tenders?” Whatever she says just go “alright, sure, you can go then. What do you think?” That way it’s light and you take a lot of pressure off her by temporarily uninviting her based on something silly. Sounds backfirish, but it worked for me.

    fae11
    fae11
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    December 13, 2018 at 5:55 pm #191047

    you should hint around about dating. if shes for it, then try. do it in a sincere way too

    Yavin203
    Yavin203
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    December 17, 2018 at 9:15 pm #191228

    My best advice for you is to do something in public first. Take her to get coffee so you can get to know her one on one. Also you’re 15… don’t you have her number or snapchat? Ask for that as well! Social media is a big plus for the teens nowadays. I would ask her after class if she’s down for some coffee and to study!

    Rey Hysterio
    Rey Hysterio
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    December 21, 2018 at 3:40 pm #191603

    Ask her when you’re alone with her, face-to-face (not texting). As for first date, I would say watching a movie would be a good starter.