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[betsy boodlesParticipant]

August 19, 2017 at 3:03 pm #146169

When your waiting for a bus for ages… then two come along at once …

Hello! I’m 33, currently getting divorced, for 8 weeks I’ve been dating a guy (29) with very similar circumstances to me.
We are both professionals with one child each and we intitialy got on great! However for the last 4 weeks he has been hot and cold with me. He has a busy job and appears stressed.
I thought he was losing interest so I’ve been on two dates with another guy, also professional with 2 kids. we also hit it off and I planned to stop seeing guy number 1, as I couldn’t bear being in limbo and I’m ready to find someone nice. When I tried to do this guy number 1 opened up to me and gave me a big emotional speech about how he feels he is falling for me and it scares him, how he feels shit about himself etc … so I couldn’t do it.
The other guy is such fun he’s older (40) less complicated and after all I’ve been though myself a real tonic for the soul. He is also after long term commitment. So what do I do? Both are very attractive, nice guys! I like both of them!