Why Do I Always have To Approach Her


Why Do I Always have To Approach Her

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    June 29, 2013 at 8:32 pm #34554
    Why Do I Always have To Approach Her

    There is a girl I have known for quite a long time. Whenever we talk I always have to be the one to approach her. Today I saw her at our health club. I know she saw me but would not approach me. So as usual, I took the initiative to approach her. To make a long story short, as usual we talked for over 2 1/2 hours. Talked about her family life and I got her to laugh a lot. When we talk we are both very very comfortable with each other and talk non-stop. What I don’t understand is why she will never approach me first. Why do I always have to make the first move? She enjoys being with me so I am confused her by her actions. Any ideas?

    July 29, 2013 at 11:24 am #36097

    Well, it seems to me you have an interest in this girl. Maybe instead of just approaching her and talking to her, approach and propose a small date/get-together.

    Heck, she may be extremely shy. She may be waiting for you to make a move already. Then your ‘why do I always have to approach her’ problem disappears.