Why is nudity, porn and masturbation looked at as such a negative behavior in a

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    weareacouple
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    March 15, 2020 at 12:23 am #231522
    Why is nudity, porn and masturbation looked at as such a negative behavior in a

    We are a married couple for 25 years and we are here to say that our relationship has thrived with the use of all three of the above mentioned activities. We also think it is useful here to say that we are both addicted to sex so that may have some effect on the way we feel above them. We both travel a lot for our jobs and we both use porn and masturbation to get our needs met on the road and have been useful in getting away from the hotel bar pick up habit. We are both open nudist and have been nudists as a family as well. We would love to discuss this openly on this forum so feel free to comment any way you would like. Have a great day and hope to hear form you and your experiences.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    March 15, 2020 at 5:10 pm #231531

    There are numerous factors why people feel the way they do about nudity, sex, and masturbation.
    Sometimes it’s just how they were raised, religious beliefs, cultural decorum, or bad experiences.

    Life is a (personal) journey!

    Ideally the goal is to find someone who shares your same values.
    Sounds like you’ve been fortunate enough to accomplish that.

    Too many others waste time and energy trying to get someone to become who they are not.
    This leads to frustration on their part and resentment on the part of their mate.

    Generally speaking people don’t change unless (they) are unhappy.

    Life is too short to be trying to change water into wine.
    The goal is to find someone who (already is) what you want.

    Date2nite
    Date2nite
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    March 15, 2020 at 5:10 pm #231532

    I think the biggest reason that porn, nudity and masturbation is seen in a negative light in a relationship, is because it has destroyed a lot of relationships/marriages. Your case is obviously the exception. However, in many cases one of the spouses/partners spends more time looking at porn and masturbating then they do meeting their partners/spouses sexual needs, thereby, causing harm to their sex life.