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SigmaParticipantDecember 6, 2016 at 6:34 am #119189
I have tried to approach this girl at my gym. We talked, I made her laugh and in the end I asked for her Facebook and she added me. Now she is not even “looking” at the text I sent her! What should I do already!!! I am really pissed off!!! What should I do to make girls take me seriously!!!!!!!!! Please tell me!!!!!!! Thank you very much!
ZeackParticipantDecember 11, 2016 at 7:28 am #119707
Some girls just like to drag guys along. Maybe she’s not that into you? You should also calm down a bit about how your approach the situation (all the exclamation marks and stuff) you shouldn’t seem needy to girl most people don’t like that
starryeyedprincessParticipantDecember 12, 2016 at 9:20 am #119706
First off,chill dude.If you’re too forward you’re mostly going to scare girls away.If they don’t look at your messages and are clearly active otherwise on the site or in general then it’s best just to move on.Try not to think of each chance as a failure.There’s plenty of single women in the world and it’s only a matter of time before you find the right one.Just try to relax a little ok?Keep being friendly and polite and respect them and give them their space and you’ll start to see more women take interest in you.If you find a woman that you do stay in contact with that doesn’t want a relationship then that’s okay too right?There’s nothing wrong with having another friend.Who knows they may even lead you to that special someone you’re looking for…
josephddiazzParticipantDecember 12, 2016 at 10:59 am #119767
Calm down! Take it easy… You have her on Facebook, you have her number. Call her up! Ask her out directly over the phone. Don’t show any hunger… Try to be relaxed when on the phone! Good luck!
thebigEParticipantDecember 12, 2016 at 3:02 pm #119817
Keep your cool. If she doesn’t respond don’t keep hounding her because it won’t help your cause. If you see her at the gym again just keep the conversation light and fun and ask her out in person.
WoofiezParticipantDecember 13, 2016 at 5:42 pm #120045
Well, it is not always a definite yes when you ask them out. They might like someone else or not be looking for a relationship at the time. Try to get to know the girl first, but give them signals. And if you become very good friends with them, you just got a new best friend! 🙂 Hope it helped 😛
BetweenAngelsandInsectsParticipantDecember 14, 2016 at 7:05 am #120061
I think there’s a bit of a gap in the information you’ve given us that might help give a more accurate answer. You say she’s not responding to your texts, did you ask her out right away? Is it just one text? If you’re sending a bunch that have gone un-responded to, and she’s not looking at them, then that’s definitely a sign of her seeing a red flag and distancing.
Her adding you on FB is a pretty good sign though, which suggests you have something about you that is appealing. If it is that people think you’re funny then perhaps a better approach would be to start a few casual chats on FB, first, and then ask about meeting up for a coffee or something within that.
twhysParticipantDecember 14, 2016 at 7:28 pm #120206
The “ghost” is one of the toughest things to deal with, because responding more only makes you less desirable. Your only play is to respond with some sort of neg. she has to know that you don’t give two shits whether you get a date with her. That might peak her interest.
AlwayshopefulParticipantDecember 15, 2016 at 12:35 pm #120293
She might even be possibly seeing someone else
tmoney1987ParticipantDecember 15, 2016 at 1:08 pm #120303
Take it easy, I think you just need to meet the right person
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