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I am 29 and a teacher and I met an educated, handsome neurologist back in September. We connected so well through texting and video and said it was the most natural chemistry we have ever felt. We hinted marriage, kids. We went on a date after only two weeks of talking but after that date he told me “the chemistry wasn’t there.” Never heard from him again but I was very hurt for a long time, he felt like the one.
Fast forward to the other day, one year later, I ran into him at the hospital he works at. He sees me in the waiting room, we make eye contact from a distance, and he texts me if that was really me and wants to bring me a coffee. It feels like fate again for both of us. He says he was really happy to know it was me. We don’t get coffee at the hospital, but we do text the whole day as if nothing ever happened before, so natural. We go out for coffee, and then after the date he just tells me he is moving and cant do long distance. Stops talking. Does he just think I’m hideous?
yooooParticipantSeptember 17, 2017 at 5:52 pm #149293
He seems like he does not know what he wants….you shouldn’t try and pursue this because you simply seem more emotionally advanced than he is.September 17, 2017 at 6:26 pm #149296
What bugs me is that he always asks what I think of him before he drops his excuse. He knows I’m going to be very complimentary, but then he doesnt return the compliment. WHY ASK if youre not going to stick around? Its like he wants his ego fed first, and then drops his excuses. Also, he asked me if he was my type in the looks department. Would he ask that if he thought I was ugly or something? I just truly trust he had good intentions, he knows I am a virgin waiting for marriage, he is waiting again too, we both seemed to want marriage and love kids, so its not as if he was just trying to have sex.September 18, 2017 at 5:35 pm #149456
Any other opinions as to why he left? Please dont say he just wanted sex because he knows I’m a virgin and he is religious too
JD091ParticipantSeptember 19, 2017 at 2:13 pm #149525
He is playing around and it is unhealthy for you to overthink.September 20, 2017 at 7:34 pm #149814
He is playing around and it is unhealthy for you to overthink.
Yeah it really is. My hair fell out the first time. I’m talking about 50% of my hair from stress. It wasn’t noticeable to anyone but me, but it took the whole year for me to get my beautiful hair again. And now he does it again…
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