Women seem to be interested at the bar drunk/sober but next day very few reply

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Women seem to be interested at the bar drunk/sober but next day very few reply

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    Datingin2017
    Datingin2017
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    October 31, 2017 at 10:02 pm #154641
    Women seem to be interested at the bar drunk/sober but next day very few reply

    Hi,
    So i m 31 yrs old male, i think i m avarege looking guy, when i meet women at the bars and the clubs the show interests we carry conversations and most of the time it goes well, sometimes we would be making plans for next date but next day they either don’t reply to the texts or they would only reply to the first text, so i m wondering what am i doing wrong. Lately i hace been telling them if you don’t want to meet or talk you don’t have to give me your number and their replies would be like, no i like you i would like to see you. So i m just wondering does this happen to you guys often? Or i m just doing something wrong?

    triathlete777
    triathlete777
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    November 1, 2017 at 5:25 pm #154745

    You have to stop caring so much and just keep playing the game. Eventually you will win a hand. It’s all a numbers game.

    frankt
    frankt
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    December 22, 2018 at 12:27 am #191606

    If the lady was drunk at the bar, their thoughts are distorted. Any “interest” they show (when drunk) take with a grain of salt. If they are drunk, that is probably not the first time they were drunk. They are self medicating themselves.

    If the lady was sober, they were most likely caught up the moment of the excitement. When they got home and calmed down, things changed.

    Bars are conducive to drunkenness, bad decisions, fights, loud, and one night stands.

    *** I would suggest finding an alternative to the bars and clubs.

    frankt
    frankt
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    December 22, 2018 at 12:28 am #191607

    If the lady was drunk at the bar, their thoughts are distorted. Any “interest” they show (when drunk) take with a grain of salt. If they are drunk, that is probably not the first time they were drunk. They are self medicating themselves.

    If the lady was sober, they were most likely caught up the moment of the excitement. When they got home and calmed down, things changed.

    Bars are conducive to drunkenness, bad decisions, fights, loud, and one night stands.

    *** I would suggest finding an alternative to the bars and clubs.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    December 24, 2018 at 1:30 pm #191659

    A lot of men and women who meet in nightclubs are looking to get laid that very night!

    Your mistake with (some of these women) is you’re not making your move while they are “in the mood”.
    The following day or days afterward your window has closed. I’m not talking about taking advantage of women.
    I’m talking about women who knowingly decided to go out to party with the hopes of having fun and getting laid.
    When the guy simply asks for their phone number rather than kissing/making out it ends their night with a thud.

    Not everyone who goes clubbing is looking to find a “serious relationship”. They mostly want to have FUN.
    When the DJ or lead singer of the band says: “Last call for alcohol!” many people scramble to have a hookup.
    This explains why you see a lot of people making out on the dance floor during slow dances or in parking lots.

    Very few women are looking/expecting to meet their future husband in a (bar).
    If you’re looking for something serious find another way. Maybe Meetup dot com in a hobby group.