Women, what does this mean, if you were doing this?

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Women, what does this mean, if you were doing this?

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    Confused94
    Confused94
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    December 4, 2019 at 2:08 pm #226095
    Reply To: Women, what does this mean, if you were doing this?

    Personally, as a female, I have done my fair share of researching “dating advice” and “how to get the guy”. One of the most constant points made is that you have to keep your options open and try to meet as many guys as you can. Then you basically filter it down to one. She may still be trying to filter but if it goes on for too long then it’s useless. If she can’t make up her mind soon then I think its best to move on….

    Kballer
    Kballer
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    December 5, 2019 at 9:40 pm #226232
    Reply To: Women, what does this mean, if you were doing this?

    STOP trying to commit her to a freaking relationship so early on!!!! YOU don’t get to decide when you are both in a “relationship”-SHE DOES.

    Your ONLY job right now, and going forward is to STOP trying to pin her down, and/or make her exclusive to you. Think about it this way-not saying this is the reality-but you need to think about it this way-she could be dating up to 5 guys simultaneously right now.. ALL OF YOU (5) are trying to get her to commit to dating just one of you.. You know who she is going to pick? The guy she has the MOST fun with that is not pressuring her to be exclusive.

    Your ONLY job right now is to hang out, have fun, and create an environment in which hooking up is possible. Please, do yourself a favor and start reading Coach Corey Wayne’s book-How To Be A 3% Man.. Right now YOU ARE DRIVING HER AWAY. Your are LOWERING her attraction level to you. STOP doing that if you want to keep her! Focus ONLY on taking her out and doing exciting things, and laughing.

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