Younger woman flirting with me, feeling confused


Younger woman flirting with me, feeling confused

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    May 6, 2019 at 9:55 pm #199984
    Younger woman flirting with me, feeling confused

    A young woman (29 yo) moved into our small town with her husband about a year ago. I helped them settle in and introduced them to a few locals etc. The wife is friendly and outgoing and we became friends quickly. She’s drop dead gorgeous and flirty but it only seems to be the case with me. I’m 54, have a girlfriend my age (been together 2 years) and I’m not some cashed up guy with a nice car or anything like that.

    I respect and like her husband and obviously love my girlfriend but I’m struggling with this situation. I do like the attention and get flattered and think she’s incredible – smart, witty, beautiful, fun. When we’re out she convinces me to drink more, we’re affectionate, hugging, always sitting together, she texts flirty messages with kisses and hearts and I started doing it back. The other night she kissed me on the lips (we were both drunk). Do all young girls behave like this and I’m a deluded old man? Or should I set some boundaries and risk making things awkward?

    • This topic was modified 11 months ago by macky65 macky65. Reason: change title
    May 7, 2019 at 11:28 am #200024

    “Do all young girls behave like this….”
    I believe you know the answer is HELL NO!

    “..she texts flirty messages with kisses and hearts and I started doing it back.”

    At age 54 you don’t get to play the naïve card. You know where this is going.
    You’ll be saying: “I never meant for this to happen.” or “One thing led to another.”
    The road to cheating is paved with saying “yes” to each opportunity to move forward.

    Just about every new relationship begins with flirtatious banter.
    “she’s incredible – smart, witty, beautiful, fun.”

    “I respect and like her husband and obviously love my girlfriend…”
    “we’re affectionate, hugging, always sitting together..” Really? Come on man!
    In what world do (your actions) describe someone who respects her husband or (loves) your girlfriend?

    “She’s drop dead gorgeous..”
    Admit it to yourself you WANT to have sex with her!

    Odds are if you cheat with her you’re going to get caught. Especially in a small town.
    Distance yourself unless you don’t care what happens.

    May 8, 2019 at 10:08 am #200078

    I agree with what dashingscorpio said

    May 13, 2019 at 8:40 am #200244

    I m reallly young.
    But in my life i understaand that you have to do want you want,you have to appreciate what you have.
    If you love your girl you cant even think about others,that’s my opinion.