Lesbian Dating

7 Best Free Lesbian Chat Apps (For Android & iPhone)

Hayley Matthews

According to Slate, there are about 1 billion Android users and 470 million iPhone users, and according to the Daily Beast, about 10 million Americans identify as LGBTQ. Because of this, we get a lot of lesbian iOS and Android users coming to us asking which apps are the best for chatting with other single ladies.

We thought we’d address that topic today by sharing our seven favorite lesbian chat apps for both operating systems. A bonus is that they’re all free to join and offer a ton of free features to help you connect with your dream gay girl.



With more than 30 million downloads combined between the App Store and Google Play, not to mention Amazon Apps, Zoosk is one of the most popular lesbian chat apps around. Its more than 40 million members send more than 3 million messages a day, and for free you can receive and send a certain number of messages, like profiles, send virtual smiles, and request more photos. Don’t forget to connect your Facebook, Google+, and/or Twitter profiles to Zoosk for quick profile creation and to verify that you are who you say you are.



Founded in 1993, Match is an impressive dating brand with an equally impressive lesbian dating app — it’s said to be responsible for the most romantic connections. You won’t have to pay a penny to register, upload photos, view and like profiles, receive matches every day, send winks, add favorites, and receive messages, among other things. One happy user wrote on Google Play: “It’s ranked as one of the most highest in matchmaking. I’ve met more locals than I ever realized who lived near me!”

If you care more about quality than quantity, Elite Singles is the lesbian chat app for you. Here, it’s all about relationship-oriented, successful, highly educated singles. Over 80% of members have earned at least a bachelor’s degree from a college or university, 90% are 30 or older, and 100% are looking for a lifetime partner. You can communicate in a variety of ways, including liking whole profiles and sections of profiles, creating a Favorites list, and sending virtual smiles. It’s all free! Plus, you’ll receive compatible “Have You Met” match suggestions daily.

BlackPeopleMeet is a sister site of Match, so you know it’s trustworthy and it works. Catering to black and biracial singles (straight, gay, and lesbian), BlackPeopleMeet is iOS and Android friendly and offers a 100% free membership that never expires. All you have to do is provide your gender and the gender you’re seeking, height, ethnicity, body type, marital status, religion, how many children you have (if any), how many children live with you (if any), smoking habits, country, zip code, birthdate, username, and password.



For a lot of single lesbians, dating isn’t about finding “The One.” It’s about finding “The One for Right Now,” and that’s where BeNaughty comes in. This free chat app is where you can express all of your sexual desires without having to worry about people judging you. In fact, you’ll find people who have the same fantasies! BeNaughty makes your safety a top priority as well. The team behind the app verifies every member and uses SSL encryption to protect your data.



HER, formerly known as Dattch, is a dating app for lesbian, bisexual, curious, and queer girls created by lesbian, bisexual, curious, and queer girls. It’s also a massive, thriving, and welcoming community for finding events near you, reading articles, and offering/receiving support. In terms of matching, the app users your location as well as your interests and relationship criteria to suggest girls you’ll like. In her review of HER, Shelby Hannah said, “I liked this app — it’s actually where I met my current girlfriend.”

URL: https://weareher.com/



As Flirt says, “it all starts with flirting,” and the way you can connect on the platform is by joining a chat room or sending a wink or message. Lesbian singles from all over the world come to Flirt because of its affordability, simplicity, and security. Plus, it’s a lot of fun. For more ways to improve your mobile dating experience, check out the Flirt blog, where you can find advice on everything from facing online dating fears to planning a romantic date.

URL: https://www.flirt.com/

It Doesn’t Matter If You Prefer iPhone or Android — There’s a Lesbian Chat App for You!

With the millions of iPhone and Android users out there, it can be hard to pinpoint the best apps for people with different lifestyles. When it comes to lesbian dating, you can’t really beat the seven apps on our list. So get to downloading — it won’t cost you anything!

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