Two-thirds of Women Report Stress Due to Mother-in-Laws

C. Price

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If your mother-in-law drives you up the wall, you aren’t alone. Psychologist Dr. Terri Apter recently found that nearly two-thirds of all women experience stress due to their mother-in-law.

Apter’s research is backed up by a wealth of past studies suggesting the relationship between a woman and her mother-in-law is the most strained familial relationship in America.

While previous studies have found men often experience some level of stress from their relationship with their wife’s parents, women ultimately seem to suffer the lion’s share of problems related to in-law drama.

According to the literature, there are many opportunities for a mother-in-law to interfere with her son’s relationship.


“A mother-in-law may drive a wedge

between her son and her daughter-in-law.”

The beginning of a new marriage forces all parties to redefine their relationships with each other and offers a moment where a mother-in-law may drive a wedge between her son and her daughter-in-law.

When a young couple has their first child, the man’s mother often interjects her opinion on parenting matters, even if her opinion wasn’t solicited, often resulting in tension.

The acceptance and rejection of family traditions also represents a common source of conflict between wives and mother-in-laws.

But how can a woman minimize the stress she feels due to her relationship with her mother-in-law?

The research suggests a simple solution — creating and maintaining a united front with her husband.

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