How To Text Your Way To The Love You Want

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How to Text Your Way to the Love You Want

Dr. Diana Kirshner

Written by: Dr. Diana Kirshner

Dr. Diana Kirshner

Dr. Diana Kirschner starred in a one-woman PBS TV special on finding love and is the best-selling author of Love in 90 Days and Find Your Soul Mate in Six Simple Steps. Her free Dating Tips & Relationship Advice newsletter is available at

Edited by: Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.

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Texting can change the whole emotional climate of your relationship.

Gwen, a client in our Love Mentoring program, used it to get the commitment she wanted from her boyfriend, Karl.

After being together just a few short months, Gwen was pushing Karl away because she was demanding to meet his kids and family, know where things were heading and so on.

This was causing him to back off.

We asked Gwen to stop her anxious demands and had her set up an amazing and close texting relationship with Karl. This created ATTRACTION rather than the repulsion she was generating before.

Over time, it brought them much closer and they got happily engaged (Karl proposed!)

Here is an excerpt about texting from my new ebook, “30 Days to Love: The Ultimate Relationship Turnaround Guide,” to help you use the magic of smokin’ hot texts to create the love you want:

I want you to look over these text ideas and begin to use some to change the emotional climate of your relationship.

Just use simple templates that begin with “Love your…” or “Can’t wait to…” or “Still thinking about…” and add in a truthful ending.

“You will be surprised by the response

you get when you send texts like these.”

Send a few messages like the ones below during the day and watch what happens!

  • Love your kiss
  • Can’t wait 2 feel your touch
  • Still thinking about your lips
  • Love your abs & OMG your happy trail….
  • Still thinking abt that steamy shower
  • Love to kiss you, you know where OMG
  • Can’t wait to get your hands on me (or my hands on you!)
  • UR awesome
  • UR the man
  • Thanks for making my day
  • UR 1 great lover

You will be surprised by the response you get when you start sending text messages like these. You’re going to get a wonderful result.

It might not be at the first text or the second, but keep on going and you will see what happens — your partner is going to be a lot more responsive and interested in you.

There are a few other great tips to use with your partner that will help you get the commitment and juicy love you want, but we don’t have time to go into here.

It’s all in “30 Days to Love: The Ultimate Relationship Turnaround Guide.”

You can start reading it right away and be love bound before you know it!

Ladies, do you send sexy texts to your man? What do you say to get him going? Which one of the texts above was your favorite?

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