15 Best Sexperts 2015

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15 Best Sexperts of 2015

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You have plenty of sexual feelings, but what about sexual knowledge? Probably not nearly as much.

So where do you find the answers to all your questions? From a renowned sexpert, of course!

There are plenty out there, but these 15 dating sites and blogs really wow when it comes to knowledge, experience and relatability. You can definitely rely on their sexpertise to tell you what you need to know.

Dr. Ruth Westheimer is a psychosexual therapist who was one of the initial promoters of candidly speaking about sex. She did this via the radio with her program “Sexually Speaking.” What started as a 15-minute show has since escalated into TV, books, newspapers, games and so much more. As reigning President of the Council on Sexuality and Aging, her frank chats answer the intimate questions you’re too embarrassed to ask.

Social Clout: 483,110+ Twitter followers; 55+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @AskDrRuth

URL: drruth.com

Host of the top downloaded sex and relationship advice podcast “Sex with Emily,” Dr. Emily Morse knows what she’s talking about. Education in sexuality and psychology solidify her background and experience in political campaigns mean she really understands how people tick. She has helped millions of individuals and couples attain the sex lives and relationships they have always desired.

Social Clout: 164,860+ Facebook likes; 96,730+ Twitter followers

Twitter Handle: @SEXWITHEMILY

URL: sexwithemily.com

As an author, instructor, keynote speaker and director of her own adult film production company, Smart Ass Productions, Tristan Taormino’s sexual expertise has been featured worldwide. Her mission is to promote the pursuit of pleasure across all genders and sexual orientations by creating a judgement-free environment on her website, puckerup.com. Having been featured in more than 200 publications and more than 50 radio shows, she is definitely the go-to source of knowledge on all things erotic, sensual and pleasure-filled.

Social Clout: 38,820+ Twitter followers; 8,555+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @tristantaormino

URL: puckerup.com

Rachel’s workshops featuring erotic reading and writing have spread across the globe. As an author, editor and blogger, her work has been seen in more than 100 anthologies, six of which have resulted in Rachel receiving Gold Independent Publisher Awards for Erotica and Sexuality/Relationships. Her inclusion of personal anecdotes in her writing truly gives readers the inside scoop on everything from orgasms to the trials and tribulations of monogamy and more.

Social Clout: 21,360+ Twitter followers; 1,235+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @raquelita

URL: rachelkramerbussel.com

A.V. Flox


A.V. Flox is a blogger and all-around sex advocate, but first and foremost she labels herself an adventurer. Through her writing, she allows us all to journey with her through very transparent sexual exploration. Her blog, slantist.com, features discussions of relationships, desire and sex for all genders and adult audiences. Her bold, self-proclaimed feminist voice leaves no topic untouched, including sexual health, rape and the sex trade industry. The slant is sex, and she’s not afraid to talk about all aspects of it.

Social Clout: 17,715+ Twitter followers; 685+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @avflox

URL: slantist.com

Dr. Brame uses her Ph.D. in human sexuality to lead adults toward happier and healthier sexual lives. She bashes sexual shame, particularly regarding BDSM and fetishes, and is an expert on sexual wellness, techniques, variations and identity crises. Numerous publications, including Shape Magazine and The Washington Post, have cited her expertise on sexology, and she has appeared on several major television interviews with networks such as ABC and Fox News. Known for the innovative works of literature that she has authored, Brame is a sought-after keynote speaker at sexological conferences and frequent lecturer at major universities.

Social Clout: 12,955+ Twitter followers; 7,305+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @DrGloriaBrame

URL: gloriabrame.com

Jaclyn is a popular speaker, writer and all-around activist promoting healthy sexual awareness. She is the founder and executive director of Women, Action & the Media and is highly sought-after to appear at conferences and campus events, as well as in various media outlets. Her personal experience with sexual assault led to powerful involvement with IMPACT safety training, and her equally-influential #FBrape campaign advocated against gender-based hate speech and violence.

Social Clout: 9,385+ Twitter followers; 15+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @jaclynf

URL: jaclynfriedman.com

Dan and Jennifer Baritchi challenge viewers and readers to ask them anything and everything related to lust and romance, without fear of shame or bias. Their mission is to guide individuals and couples to a more healthy relationship and sexual lifestyle. Ask Dan & Jennifer is acclaimed as “Today’s #1 Love & Sex Resource,” and in addition to being raved about in various media outlets, the couple has authored several hit sexology publications.

Social Clout: 8,890+ Facebook likes; 8,135+ Twitter followers

Twitter Handle: @DanAndJennifer

URL: askdanandjennifer.com

Ian Kerner


Ian Kerner is a nationally-recognized psychotherapist certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. In addition to lecturing on intimacy and relationships, and appearing as a guest speaker at ivy league universities, he works privately with individuals and couples regarding sexuality and relationships. Best known for his book “She Comes First,” he is a New York Times best-selling author and well-known columnist for CNN.

Social Clout: 7,470+ Twitter followers; 470+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @goodinbed

URL: iankerner.com

Sought-after speaker on sexuality and award-winning author are only the start of Jamye’s credentials as an expert on erotica, pleasure, sexual health and more. She has directed and produced several adult films and is frequently featured in numerous online and printed publications, including Cosmopolitan, YourTango and Forbes. As a former president of Feminists for Free Expression and the current sex educator for Lovers her role as a sex adviser knows no bounds.

Social Clout: 7,355+ Twitter followers; 1,360+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @jamye

URL: jamyewaxman.com

Tracey Cox


With an education in both the psychology and journalism fields, Tracey has starred in television, radio and print media. She has shared her knowledge on sex and relationships in several books, many of which were international best-sellers, with millions of copies sold. More than 20 years of experience in sexual counselling makes Tracey an expert source for advice on sexual exploration, body language and love.

Social Clout: 6,230+ Twitter followers; 2,135+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @TraceyCox

URL: traceycox.com

Dr. Trina obtained membership to the American Association of Sex Educators Counselors and Therapists, as well as the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, and received her doctorate in human sexuality from the world’s premier sex school. She is a sex coach, spokeswoman and speaker who has received raved reviews for her appearances across the globe and through various media channels. Her websites feature expertise on all aspects of safe, fun and meaningful sexual experiences.

Social Clout: 4,860+ Twitter followers; 1,905+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @DrTrinaRead

URL: trinaread.com, vivaxo.com

Resident advisors on love, sex and stardom, Em and Lo fancy themselves the experts on the exploration of the conventional bedroom scene. They have co-authored several books on lust and love, including “150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink,” and host a U.K. television series called “SEX: How to Do Everything.” With not just daily, but double-daily, updates to their blog, EmandLO.com is sure to feed you with insight, information and a little intrigue to take back to the bedroom with you.

Social Clout: 2,765+ Twitter followers; 1,325+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @emandlo

URL: EMandLO.com



Mistress Maxxters, with the help of more than 30 contributors, an editorial board and a management team, created The Sexperts Lounge to provide access to the best education and most varied opinions on human sexuality a blog can offer. Many of the writers share personal testimonies, and the site’s resident sex educators offer a broad range of information on sex and sexual health. This blog is a go-to for advice on any curiosity you might have, including, but not limited to: dating, diseases and daring moves for the bedroom.

Social Clout: 50+ Facebook likes; 10+ Twitter followers

Twitter Handle: @sexpertslounge

URL: sexpertslounge.com

Well-known for her podcast, Sex Nerd Sandra, Sandra Daugherty is an avid proponent of sexual freedom. She is committed to her education, including experience in cultural anthropology and broadcast journalism, as well as completion of the comprehensive sex educator training program by San Francisco Sex InformationSandra tells all, with a comedic and insightful flare, in order to create a safe space for individuals to identify and meet their individualized sexual needs.

Social Clout: 32,355+ Twitter followers; 9,130+ Facebook likes

Twitter Handle: @SexNerdSandra

URL: sexnerdsandra.com

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