How Lesbians Can Have A Safe And Exciting Sex Life

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How Lesbians Can Have a Safe and Exciting Sex Life

Kara Pound

Written by: Kara Pound

Kara Pound

Kara Pound is an award-winning journalist based in St. Augustine, Florida. She holds a bachelor's degree in journalism from Flagler College. Her work has been published in INKED, Natural Awakenings, Design Aglow, Memphis Flyer, Jacksonville Magazine, E/Environmental Magazine, and dozens more. Check out some of Kara's work at

Edited by: Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.

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Anyone who is sexually active outside of a monogamous relationship is at risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection (STI). That’s why it’s important to practice safe sex, get regular checkups at your OB/GYN and stay healthy — physically and mentally.

For lesbians, STIs can be transmitted woman-to-woman through skin-to-skin contact, fluids and more. And certain STIs are more common in sexual activity among lesbians. Go to for additional information on STIs.

So there’s the bad news, ready for the good news?

Sex can still be safe and exciting if you take the proper precautions. First and foremost, find an OB/GYN who has experience taking care of lesbian patients and has training to know about specific health issues. If you’re uncomfortable talking with your healthcare provider about your sex life, then you need to find a new doctor.

Contact the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association (GLMA) for an online health care referral at

Once you find a doctor you’re comfortable with, practice safer sex by talking to your partner about their STI status and use a condom on sex toys, as well as watch your alcohol intake, exercise, and eat right. If you’ve taken all of the proper precautions, then it’s time to have fun!

If you’re a newbie to girl-on-girl sex, or you’ve just gotten stagnant and need to spice things up, here are some resources for better lesbian sex:

American writer Rita Mae Brown once said, “I became a lesbian because of women, because women are beautiful, strong and compassionate.” Well said.

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