How To Get A Lesbian Womans Number

Lesbian Dating

How to Get a Lesbian Woman’s Number

Kara Pound

Written by: Kara Pound

Kara Pound

Kara Pound is an award-winning journalist based in St. Augustine, Florida. She holds a bachelor's degree in journalism from Flagler College. Her work has been published in INKED, Natural Awakenings, Design Aglow, Memphis Flyer, Jacksonville Magazine, E/Environmental Magazine, and dozens more. Check out some of Kara's work at

Edited by: Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.

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Ah, the good old digits. I’m sure there are thousands of cheesy pickup lines to try and secure a woman’s phone number, but let’s be honest, they don’t work. When you’re looking to turn a great bar conversation into a first date, you need a way to contact her.

You could ask for her email, LinkedIn account or mailing address, but a cell phone number is the most practical — and the easiest.

So when you meet a kick-ass woman and you’re hoping it turns into something more, how do you get a lesbian woman’s number?

Think about why you really want it.

Do you just want to get her into bed, or do you think there’s a relationship budding right in front of your very eyes? Think about the end game before making a play.

Author Fran Lebowitz, known for her sardonic social commentary on American life, once said, “As a teenager you are at the last stage in your life when you will be happy to hear that the phone is for you.”

What Lebowitz is getting at are the butterflies in your stomach, the utter elation when that one person calls who you’ve been waiting to hear from.

This, my friend, is why securing the digits is so important. If you’ve met a woman you’d like to get to know, be honest about it — to yourself and to her.

Life is too short to play hard to get or beat around the bush. Simply, and without BS, ask to extend the conversation — and the possibility of a first date — with her phone number.

Brazilian novelist Paulo Coelho once said, “I cry very easily. It can be a movie, a phone conversation, a sunset — tears are words waiting to be written.”

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