Actresses Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor are one of the cutest lesbian couples ever. Just look at their tweets and interviews about each other, and you’ll see what I mean. Some people have criticized their 32-year age difference, but they couldn’t care less. To them, age really is just a number, and love is love.
Sarah once said Holland is one of the most exquisitely beautiful women she knows, and that’s just plain adorable.
If you’re hoping to meet a lesbian cougar, or you are one yourself, we suggest checking out the following dating sites built for age-gap relationships. The best part is that these sites let you join and browse profiles for free, so you can explore without any pressure.
1. Match
Match has tens of millions of members and more success stories than any other dating site, so while it’s not strictly a lesbian dating site or mature dating site, it’s our number one option for any singles seeking a love connection. You can filter your searches by sexual orientation and age — not to mention gender, location, education, interests, and appearance. Finding that special someone should be really easy on Match.
2. OurTime.com
One of the most popular senior dating sites, OurTime is a sister property of Match, so you can rest assured that it works just as well. Another secret about OurTime is that anyone over the age of 18 is allowed to join, not just those who are 50 or older. You can take OurTime wherever you go by downloading the app via the App Store or Google Play, and then you can start viewing profiles and photos, seeing who’s checked you out, and sending and receiving flirts and emails.
3. BlackPeopleMeet
BlackPeopleMeet makes the online dating process as straightforward as its name. All black and biracial lesbian singles have to do to join the site is provide their gender, the gender they’re seeking, country, zip code, username, password, birthday, and email. You can then upload a photo and write a paragraph or two about yourself and your wants.
4. NaughtyCharm
If you’re looking for no-strings-attached relationships NaughtyCharm is one of the best sites to turn to. There aren’t any games you’ll have to play or facades you’ll have to put on — everyone here has the same goals. Security is another pro — NaughtyCharm uses SSL encryption to protect your personal and financial information, every profile is vetted by the team, and you can reach customer service 24 hours a day, seven days a week via email.
5. LesbianCougarDating
LesbianCougarDating aims to redefine “cougar-ism” as the “ageless beauty of women.” The site says its members are poised, experienced, independent, sensual, and practical. You’ll also get plenty of features that make it easy to flirt privately with thousands of women. On top of that, after you sign up, your profile may appear on the homepage for added visibility. Getting started only takes a few minutes, so you can jump in before someone great slips by.
6. PinkCupid
Founded in 2007, PinkCupid is one of the most established lesbian dating sites around. Joining is simple because the site breaks everything into three steps: 1) Create a profile. 2) Browse photos. 3) Start communicating. Nadia, one of hundreds of happy users, said: “I met my soul mate on Pink Cupid! She’s perfect for me, and she’s the most intelligent and beautiful woman I’ve ever met. We were both pretty skeptical of online dating at first, but it worked for us!”
7. CougarLife
CougarLife calls itself the largest cougar dating site, and it’s been featured by major media outlets including USA Today, Fox News, ESPN, Playboy, and Sports Illustrated. Its mission is to challenge common myths about age-gap dating, especially the idea that it’s only about looks and/or money. CougarLife also welcomes straight men and women and gay men, so you’ll want to use the search filters carefully.
Forget About Age & Just Listen to Your Heart
Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor aren’t just #lesbianrelationshipgoals — they’re #relationshipgoals in general. While some people may give them weird looks or make rude comments, they know that their feelings are real — and age isn’t a factor. We say buck the rules if you’re a younger lesbian looking for an older lesbian, or vice versa, and these seven dating sites are the best place to do that.
