I Think She’s Too Young For Me. What Do You Think?

I Think Shes Too Young For Me What Do You Think
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Dr. Wendy Walsh
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By: Dr. Wendy Walsh

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Reader Question:

I am 67 years old. I lost my wife last year and I am interested in finding another.

However, there is a 38-year-old woman who wants to marry me. I think she is too young for me. She says age is just a number, but I don’t believe that.

What do you think?

-James (Alabama)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Answer:

Dear James,

You would consider marrying a woman just because she wants to marry you? Wow. You’re easy.

I say ask yourself what you want in a partner. Do you love her? Are you compatible?

If she is too young for you, move on and date your peers. Single women are available across the lifespan. In fact, single women over 50 far outnumber men, so it’s a great playing field.


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Dr. Wendy Walsh

By: Dr. Wendy Walsh

Women's Dating Expert

Known as America's Relationship Expert, Dr. Wendy Walsh is an award-winning television journalist, radio host & podcaster, and the author of three books on relationships and thousands of print and digital articles. More than 1.5 million people follow her sage advice on social media. She holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and teaches in the Psychology Department at California State University Channel Islands and has been the host of "The Dr. Wendy Walsh Show" on iHeart Radio's KFI AM 640 since 2015. Walsh is also a former Emmy-nominated co-host of "The Doctors," as well as former host of the nationally syndicated show "EXTRA." She was named a Time Magazine Person of the Year in 2017 after speaking out about harassment at a major news network.

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