Best Millennial Dating Experts 2024

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10 Best Millennial Dating Experts for 2024

Chloë Hylkema

Written by: Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema

Chloë Hylkema has covered hundreds of people, services, and ideas in the dating and lifestyle sphere, all explored through the lens of making dating enjoyable. She has earned her bachelor's degree in English from Emory University and worked on animal rights advocacy issues and research in the past. Chloë is passionate about delivering readers the information and resources they need to forge conscious and self-realized connections. When she’s not writing, you can find her cooking a vegan feast or at the climbing gym.

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Lillian Castro

Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.

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Shanna Ellis

Shanna Ellis, Managing Editor at DatingAdvice.com, has spent over a decade working at online publications as writer, editor, and director of content. The online brands under her leadership have seen coverage from Forbes, USA Today, and Insider. She holds a BA in Advertising and minor in Communication Studies from the University of Florida. Her role for DatingAdvice includes conducting insightful interviews with dating professionals, enriching readers with invaluable advice on dating culture and relationships.

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Millennials make up a unique population of the dating scene. You’ve been around long enough to remember the explosion of dating apps and every change that’s come in pop culture, technology, and the world of romance since. You can also remember a time before dating felt like it happened mostly online.

Life looks a lot different from when you were a teenager, especially when it comes to dating. These experts know what it’s like to date as a 30-something, and they also know the scene is constantly in flux. 

They’ll help you keep up with the changes and find a dating stride that works for you. It’s not just about getting dates– when you do it right, dating is a journey of self-discovery.

Tripp Kramer | Grace Lee | Sami Wunder | Lindsey Metselaar | Marquita Johnson | Samantha Burns | Elsa Moreck | Jamie Demarco | Ariella Serur | Myisha Battle

If you want tried-and-true advice that will actually land you dates, Tripp Kramer is the guy for you. Tripp is a dating and relationship coach who specializes in helping single men improve their confidence, talk to women, and attract the kind of people they’ve been looking for.

Tripp teaches you how to meet women without cold approaches, cheesy pick-up lines, or having to spend too much time at the bar or club. Instead, he focuses on teaching you how to be magnetic and irresistible. When you work with Tripp, he’ll show you how to get women to approach you, not the other way around. 

Best for: Millennial Men

Grace Lee

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Grace Lee is a dating coach who wants you to go on dates and actually enjoy the process. Dating can get tiring, especially for millennials who have been trying their hand at online dating for a while. Grace helps her clients refocus and learn how to enjoy it again, highs and lows included.

More than dating, Grace wants to help you find love (which she does!), she’s more focused on making sure you love the dating process. She’ll remind you that to be single is to be unattached– not unchosen. As a single person, you have so much freedom to explore and discover new things. As your dating coach, Grace won’t let you forget it.

Best for: Making the Most of Singlehood

Sami Wunder helps successful women find partners who offer just as much as they do. Sami is known internationally in the dating and relationship space– she has over 1100 recorded client engagements and proposals since her start in 2014.

Sami offers self-study programs along with group and personal coaching. She teaches you how to embrace your diva side and keep your boundaries and standards firm. Sami will help you realize that things like boundaries and needs don’t hold you back in dating. Instead, they empower you to find that lasting, authentic love you’ve been waiting for. 

Best for: Ambitious Women

Lindsey Metselaar is the brains behind “We Met at Acme,” a podcast and platform about all things sex, relationships, and modern dating. Lindsey started her podcast after getting dumped by an ex-boyfriend on her birthday and recording a candid conversation she had with one of her friends about relationships.

The rest was history. Lindsey tackles issues head-on in a way that’s equal parts expert and relatable. She has sexologists, authors, intimacy experts, and other influential leaders come on her podcast to explore fun and touchy subjects alike.  

Best for: Dating Podcast That Keeps It Real

Marquita Johnson is the founder of Millennial Counseling, Coaching, and Consulting, meaning she’s really an expert on all things millennial dating. She helps single people create the kind of love they’ve been looking for through techniques and approaches she’s perfected in her 13 years of experience.

Marquita is a Licensed Professional Counselor and incorporates elements from therapy into her coaching practice. When we struggle with dating and cultivating close connections, we’re often struggling with something deeper. Marquita gets to know you beyond your dating experience; she learns what your heart desires most, and helps you discover it.

Best for: Holistic & Therapy-Informed Approach

Samantha Burns, AKA The Millennial Love Expert, is an author and coach who knows that daters don’t just need advice about how to find a date. You also need advice on how to keep a relationship going, and, if it ends, how to heal from the breakup. After her own devastating breakup, Samantha taught herself how to find the silver lining in heartbreak.

Samantha is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and has experience working with individuals and couples in various stages of a relationship, including working with couples who were dealing with infidelity. Samantha’s approach centers on resilience and flexibility. She’ll help you focus on the excitement of the future, rather than the disappointments of the past.

Best for: Bouncing Back from a Breakup

Elsa Moreck takes a direct and scientific approach to help men get the dating results they want. No matter what you’re bringing to the proverbial dating table, Elsa has seen it and coached it before. She specializes in helping guys who feel like their standard, nice approach isn’t reaping the results they hoped for.

Elsa gets to know you on a personal level, from your past relationships and heartbreaks to your present desires and dreams. She drafts a dating game plan that emphasizes your strengths while also working through the weaker points of your romance game. 

Best for: Nice Guys Tired of Losing

Jamie Demarco is a dating and relationship coach, best-selling author, and founder of Find Your Fairytale. Jamie’s journey to her fairytale romance was full of twists and turns. Fresh out of college, her life looked perfect from the outside– she had a great long-term boyfriend and a wonderful job. But she wasn’t happy in her relationship and decided to leave.

Jamie’s single journey wasn’t easy, but it led her to her husband and the love of her life. She’s now known as a “Real Life Fairy Godmother” and teaches her clients how to attract their dream men. Jamie’s first focus is finding out what your fairytale looks like, and then helping you find it.

Best for: Finding A Guy Who Treats You Like A Queen

Ariella Serur is a queer dating coach who helps you dive head-first into dating, even when it’s scary. As a fresh college grad with a musical theater degree, Ariella went on their fair share of auditions. These auditions were stressful affairs, so they decided to just add on another thing that stressed them out: dates.

As Ariella fought through their fear of auditions and dating, they discovered that success in a dating context is about being able to move through fear. As a coach, Ariella’s goal is to prove to you that dating can be an enjoyable journey, where you can learn about yourself and others, sans all the drama that you may be accustomed to.

Best for: Queer Millennials

Myisha Battle is a Certified Clinical Sexologist and the founder of Sex for Life, her one-stop platform for sex and dating coaching, podcasts, articles, and more. Myisha has been exploring sex and dating for as long as she can remember and is passionate about helping people find romantic and sexual avenues that fulfill and empower them.

Struggling with sex can be scary. Myisha helps you realize there’s nothing to be scared of. Her approach helps you step into the communication skills that will level up your sex life while attending to the deeper issues at play. Whether you’re struggling to find intimacy with a partner or with yourself, Myisha can help you discover true connections. 

Best for: Sex Expertise

Dating experts can help you with several aspects of your dating life, whether you’re going to them for blogs, videos, or even to seek personal advice. Regardless of your dating experience or goals, one of these experts has a perspective that you can relate to.