Getting Holidays Single Guy

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Getting Through the Holidays as a Single Guy

Robert Rodriguez

Written by: Robert Rodriguez

Robert Rodriguez

I am a dating and self-actualization coach based in Austin, Texas. I have trained with some of the best in the seduction industry. My areas of expertise include dating, online dating, body language, meeting in bars, text game and inner game. You can send me an email at

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Lillian Castro

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Do you feel lonely as the holidays approach?

It is pretty common for a lot of single guys to wonder if they are going to be alone or have someone during the holidays.

What is interesting is these guys feel like they are all alone out there. However, all of these alone people actually form a large group. Within this group, there is a treasure chest of opportunity.

For every lonely guy out there this holiday season, there is a lonely girl or maybe even two.

Here are some quick tips to snag someone so you can have some romantic and fun times during the holidays.

1. Check in with some girls from the past.

If there are any girls you have even had the slightest friendship or romance with in the past, you should give them a text or call.

Ask them how they are doing and what their plans are for the holidays. You may end up surprised how eager some of these girls will be.

2. Hit up some online dating sites.

Dating sites are guaranteed to be packed with girls who are desperate to snag a quick guy to sweep them away for the holidays.

“Being single during the

holidays is actually an advantage.”

3. Try local bars.

A lot of single girls will go out to local bars during the holidays with their girlfriends or even sometimes on their own.

Many times she is secretly wishing a guy like you would come up to her and get her number so she won’t be alone during the holiday season.

4. Get creative.

Ask around and talk with your friends and family. Maybe they know someone who is interested in going on a date or just hanging out. They may know a girl who is single and willing to meet someone during this time.

Overall, being single during the holidays is actually an advantage. Women can be much more receptive during this time because they don’t want to be lonely. This can make them much more open to someone and increases your chances.

On top of this, there are many holiday season activities and date opportunities like going to see “The Nutcracker,” looking at holiday lights, watching a movie under the blanket with hot chocolate and much more.

Don’t be afraid to fulfill a girl’s fantasies of cuddling with a guy in the cold of winter. Go out there and snag a girl. They don’t want to be alone for the holiday season.

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