Reader Question:
I am talking to two women who I met on a dating site. I have been texting one very consistently who I know I like, and I have a date with her soon. The other has been seldom.
I know I could achieve the same quality of a relationship from both. Both are very attractive. I do not want to hurt anyone.
How do I handle this?
-Jeremy (Hawaii)
Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Answer:
Jeremy,
You have a right to date as many women as you like as long as you are honest about it. Dating is supposed to be a kind of audition for a relationship anyway.
I would advise you don’t have sex with either woman until you are ready to pursue a serious relationship.
In the meantime, stop texting and start dating! Your decision will be much easier to make when you get out from behind a smartphone.
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