I’m Going On Another Date with Her. Is Kissing the Standard Practice?

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Reader Question:

I’m about to go on another date. The last date we hugged at the beginning, but we had our first kiss later that night.

When I see her for this date, is kissing the standard practice now instead of hugging?

-AJ (Arizona)

Gina Stewart’s Answer:

The last thing you want to do is start a date on a potentially awkward physical level. When you see her, give a hug and kiss on the cheek. It’s warm but not overbearing in affection.

When your dates progress into more physical contact with more frequency (without alcohol), that is when you know you can be safe with a kiss when meeting.


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