How To Choose An Online Dating Sit

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How to Choose an Online Dating Site

Bethany Heinesh

Written by: Bethany Heinesh

Bethany Heinesh

Bethany has ghost-written hundreds of dating articles in the last 10 years for relationship experts all over the United States.

Edited by: Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.

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There are virtually hundreds of active online dating sites in the United States, and every day millions of men and women log on to find love through one or more of their favorite Internet matchmakers. With so many options, choosing the site that’s best for you may seem like quite an undertaking.

Meeting a match online shouldn’t feel like a daunting task. It should be fun, affordable and easy. Online dating is more convenient than ever, and the process has been simplified to the point that you are almost guaranteed to find a great guy online in just a matter of weeks.

When choosing the site that’s right for you, there are several factors to consider before you whip out the laptop and start signing up for every dating site that comes up on Google.

Do you want to pay for a membership?

Are you willing to pay to be on one of America’s premier matchmaking sites, or would you prefer to keep your money in the bank? While paid sites make promises to match you with your dream guy, free sites are just as efficient.

You need to remember, however, that men who pay to join sites like Match and Chemistry are very serious about looking for the right woman. By paying for a membership, you will be exposed to an entirely different class of men than those found on free sites.


“No matter which site you select, always be

careful when you’re looking for love on the Internet.”

Define the kind of relationship you’re looking for.

  • Are you ready to get married?
  • Do you want to date casually?
  • Do you want to have a one-night stand?

Believe it or not, there are Internet dating sites that classify users’ levels of commitment and desire to settle down or move around, which can take the guesswork out of the online dating process.

You need to get real with yourself about the kind of man you’re looking for. There are tons of dating sites that cater to specific groups of people or people looking for a specific type of person.

For instance, many sites are founded based on the idea that many of us are looking for people who have very distinct physical characteristics. If you want to have an interracial relationship, you should visit sites that focus on this niche market.

If you happen to be more interested in finding a man who shares your same interests, spiritual beliefs and topics of conversation, there are sites out there with you in mind. There are also sites that connect geniuses, cowgirls and cowboys, farmers, and people who live in the same state.

Just about any activity, religion, location or weird quirk has a niche site. These kinds of sites usually have the most amount of members and increase the chances of you meeting someone who surpasses your preconceived notions about who your soul mate is.

No matter which site you select, always be careful when you’re looking for love on the Internet. There are predators, con men and sex addicts of all shapes, sizes and colors trolling the Net looking for their next victim.

Be sure to talk on the phone with a match several times before you meet him in person, and always meet in a public place in the early stages of your courtship. You can never be too careful.

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