Bethany Heinesh

I am always amused when a man asks me what women think is sexy because it indicates that he doesn’t think he is sexy...(read more)

Ladies, there is nothing more attractive to a man than a confident woman. I know a lot of women struggle with being...(read more)

Guys, I cannot stress to you enough the importance of looking good on a first date. Dress to impress, honey. Your date...(read more)

When it comes to cheap dates, well, there’s no such thing as a cheap date. If you’re not Mr. Moneybags, but you...(read more)

If you’re anything like me, you’ve been searching for "The One" since you were old enough to date. You probably...(read more)

Unfortunately, women often miss the mark and lose the chance to exchange the kind of kiss that sparks a significant...(read more)

Ladies, it’s not unusual to fall for your best friend. If you spend enough time with someone whose company you enjoy,...(read more)

When it comes to planning dates, most guys fail to remember that a date is about nothing more than getting to know your...(read more)

Women often search desperately for a boyfriend but rarely stop to ask themselves if they are actually ready to be in a...(read more)

Fellas, there are two kinds of women you should never date: Your neighbors and your co-workers. Why? Because they know...(read more)

To be quite frank, we women have a way of complicating even the simplest of events, gestures and conversations in...(read more)

Guys, if you have come to a place where you realize it’s time to part ways with your girlfriend and you are going to...(read more)

I was recently struck by a comment made by a seemingly nice guy during a random encounter we shared at a local store....(read more)

If your man has cheated and you have decided to give him another chance, you must forgive and move forward immediately....(read more)

Text messages should be used to send a quick communique, a brief note or ask an easily answered question. They are NOT...(read more)

All too often, I meet men who teeter dangerously on the edge of giving up hope that they will find lasting love. Why?...(read more)

Having a child is a huge responsibility, one that requires an incredible amount of work, time and energy — not to...(read more)

You may have seen the movie "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days" starring Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson. The film...(read more)

You’ve heard the old saying "opposites attract." Sure they do……if you happen to be a magnet. When it comes to...(read more)

When your girlfriend cheats, it is a devastating experience. Not only has she violated your trust and disrespected you,...(read more)

No means no. Period. Whether you don’t want to have sex, watch porn or eat a certain kind of food, you have to learn...(read more)

When it comes to dating and relationships, we women are often accused of being too picky. Guys complain that we’re...(read more)

It’s no secret the Internet is one of the most profound inventions to ever find its way to planet Earth. In the...(read more)

If you have found a man you are interested in on one of your favorite online dating sites, I say go for it. Send the guy...(read more)

I am often asked by women seeking dating advice if it’s ever OK to date an ex’s friend. While there are a number of...(read more)

Guys, when it comes to planning a first date, heed my warning: You better get it right or you might cancel any hope of...(read more)

If there is one thing women love, it’s strolling hand in hand with the man they’re enamored with. Well… most...(read more)

To me, there is nothing sexier than a man who strikes the perfect balance of good guy/bad boy. There is something...(read more)

There are two sentences a woman never wants to hear from a boyfriend – "I just want to be friends" and "I need some...(read more)

Ladies, if you are looking for love on the Internet, I strongly recommend you present yourself as a strong woman who...(read more)

Just like every other human process, romantic relationships follow a certain chronological course and evolve in...(read more)

While there are many conservatives who completely disagree with a man and a woman living together before marriage, I am...(read more)

If you’ve cheated on your girlfriend, you are in quite the unpleasant situation. Hopefully, guilt is eating you alive...(read more)

When you meet a guy online and he pulls the ol' Houdini disappearing act, there are a number of explanations that might...(read more)

If you’ve recently been on more than one date that didn’t lead to a second date, something’s wrong. While there...(read more)

In the world of online dating, where there happens to be a number of procedures that apply to Internet etiquette, there...(read more)

Guys, if you’ve met someone new, or you’re in a long-term relationship and are looking for some great date ideas to...(read more)

While appearance is much more important to men than women, the ladies do care about looks. Almost every online dating or...(read more)

Ladies, while it might be tempting to Photoshop your pictures and make dramatic changes to your appearance, don’t do...(read more)

When it comes to dating a woman, conversation rules the nation. This is because most of the value a woman places on a...(read more)

The truth is, women often have a difficult time distinguishing between love and lust. It’s no wonder because both are...(read more)

Getting over a guy is like slowly pulling off a Band-Aid — for a little while, it’s agony. Then before you know it,...(read more)

Being nervous before a first date is to be expected. After all, there are countless of unknown factors that accompany a...(read more)

Meeting the parents is a major event, especially if you’re madly in love with the woman in your life and you’re...(read more)

The beauty of Internet dating is that you can get to know someone from a safe distance. This gives you a lot of control,...(read more)

There are virtually hundreds of active online dating sites in the United States, and every day millions of men and women...(read more)

The law of averages not only applies to sales tactics. It also works in the confines of a dimly-lit bar with a dirty...(read more)

One of the things women don’t do well is juggle men. Sure, you might be Queen of the Multitask, but when it comes to...(read more)

Judging someone’s character is difficult and certainly not something you can accomplish after one or two dates. It can...(read more)

If you’re into online dating and you’ve been doing it for a while, your love life may begin to feel stagnant after...(read more)

Jealousy can be a terribly destructive force in a relationship. My favorite definition of jealousy comes from...(read more)

The issue of hurried sex was best depicted in an episode of “Sex and the City,” which is the average woman’s Holy...(read more)

Many women will concede that meeting men is easy but insist getting them to talk to you is next to impossible. Nonsense,...(read more)

When you first become involved with someone, you can’t get enough of each other and it’s all you can do to keep your...(read more)

Seduction is very much a part of the courtship process, if not the most influential element of physical attraction....(read more)

If you’ve set your sights on a hot mamacita you’ve met while out around town, or you just became aware you’re...(read more)

Women often ask if they are required by some relationship rule or dating devotional to tell their man every little...(read more)

Facebook and other social media sites like Twitter and MySpace have added an entirely new dimension to the world of...(read more)

Father’s Day is right around the corner — June 17 to be exact. Guys, if you know what’s good for you, you’ll...(read more)

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When it comes to identifying the characteristics we want in a partner, some of the traits we’re seeking are...(read more)

If you’re constantly fighting with your girlfriend, it’s time to reevaluate your relationship. Bickering is to be...(read more)

Meeting women at the gym can be a sticky situation — pun intended. Most women at the gym are hot and sweaty and their...(read more)

When was the last time you remember reading an answer to this simple question on a dating site, “How do you feel about...(read more)

Guys, if you’re wondering how to get a girl to kiss you or you're waiting for her to make a move, you may be waiting a...(read more)

Online dating has quickly become a contender among the traditional ways people meet and fall in love. In fact,...(read more)

If you’re in a relationship that seems to be falling apart at the seams, fear not. No matter how hopeless it may seem,...(read more)

I rallied some of my single guy friends together over a hamburger and fries recently and talked to them about love, sex...(read more)

Blind date. Two of the most feared words in the English language. Why? Because they represent one of the most feared...(read more)

Remember the old adage, “Birds of a feather flock together”? Well, it’s great advice and completely true. You can...(read more)

Guys, if you are looking for someone special and you haven’t found her yet, it’s time to kick your efforts up a...(read more)

If you broke up with your ex and realize you’ve made a horrible mistake and want her back, chances are she’ll give...(read more)

Yes, going on a date can be a frightening experience. Feeling anxious, nervous — even nauseous — is completely...(read more)

Texting is a very popular way to communicate, and it has certainly changed the landscape of the dating scene. Instant...(read more)

Ladies, juggling more than one date at a time is not a good idea. You’ve heard the saying, “One day at a time.”...(read more)

Guys, if you’re trying to find Miss Right online, I suggest you strengthen the odds by setting up profiles on more...(read more)

You can tell a lot about a person by what kind of music they listen to. I can remember several guys who ran me off when...(read more)

Women talk with their girlfriends about everything. Am I right, ladies? There is no subject off limits, and there...(read more)

Ladies, one of the most important elements of romance, at least in my estimation, is the kiss. There is something...(read more)

I still don’t understand why men struggle with how long to wait before calling and texting a girl back. It’s not...(read more)

I am a big proponent of online dating. I think it is a great way to meet men. Today’s popular matchmaking sites make...(read more)

Social media has created an entirely new set of rules for men and women playing the field and trying their luck on the...(read more)

Every day millions of Americans go online looking for love. We join dating sites, build elaborate online profiles and...(read more)

Reader Question:
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If you’re 18 years old and are so inclined to begin dating online, go for it, girlfriend. Typically, most Internet...(read more)

Guys, if you’re feeling insecure because your woman makes more money than you, may I suggest you build a bridge and...(read more)

At first glance, a rebound relationship is an alluring alternative to heartbreak. Blinded by the pain of rejection,...(read more)

The modern man is a fascinating specimen, indeed. Men can be cryptic, non-communicative and downright frustrating....(read more)

One of the most uncomfortable things to talk about with a new boyfriend is an old boyfriend. Unfortunately, the...(read more)

Most of us have had the misfortune of being in a relationship where your significant other or you yourself cheated.
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Reader Question:
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Dealing with a breakup is one of life’s most difficult challenges. When a relationship ends, life takes on a...(read more)

Typically, monogamy is the end goal most women have when it comes to dating. Although there are plenty of women out...(read more)

When it comes to body image, guys crack me up. I watch you spend thousands of dollars on gym memberships, expensive...(read more)

When planet Earth was making way for the age of technology, many were just fine with a pen and paper. Today, however,...(read more)

Ladies, when we meet a guy and we don’t click with him, we know early on there won’t be any future dates, let alone...(read more)

When your guy gets jealous, it can make you feel secure in your relationship. You think, “If he is getting jealous, he...(read more)

Before you venture out alone into the vast world of cyber dating, I wouldn’t feel good about myself if I didn’t...(read more)

In the world of dating, sometimes we meet someone we click with immediately. We feel a passion so intense that we never...(read more)

We’ve all been at a restaurant with a date having a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad time. This is most likely to...(read more)

Guys, when it comes to sex and a new relationship, sex should be the furthest thing from your mind. Talking, listening,...(read more)

There are a lot of women who struggle with being shy and wish they could be more outgoing. They find it almost...(read more)

I recognize that in many ways I’m old fashioned. I believe, as a rule, men should initiate the “firsts” in a...(read more)

In the area of romance, communication plays a vital role in the natural progression of a relationship, but it’s no...(read more)

Internet dating can be quite perplexing. On the one hand, surfing the Web for the woman of your dreams is easy and...(read more)

First dates. We love ‘em. We hate ‘em. We love them because they can be a thrilling experience. The first date has...(read more)

The most integral aspect of any relationship is communication. We meet someone and talk with them so we can get to know...(read more)

The rules of telephone etiquette are simple and finite. Guys, if you have an awesome date with a woman, don’t play...(read more)

Even though online dating has become a viable way to get dates and meet up with eligible bachelors, if you only date men...(read more)

We’ve all been there – the dreaded first date and a bad first date at that! If you’ve found yourself in a...(read more)

As far as I am concerned, true love is blind. It knows no color, age or affliction. There is nothing taboo about falling...(read more)

First dates are like first impressions – you only get one time to do it right. When most of us think of the first...(read more)

We live in a fast-paced world where everything is moving more and more quickly, with people growing more and more...(read more)

Sorry, guys, I’m old-fashioned and I still say the guy should pay on the first date. Even if she asks you out and...(read more)

Yes, your appearance really matters, and no it has absolutely no bearing on your “dateability” whatsoever. How’s...(read more)

Back in the day, teenagers used to go to drive-in movie theaters to “park,” which provided the perfect opportunity...(read more)

Long-distance relationships are a challenge but they can be done. In many ways, a long-distance relationship is much...(read more)

This is a great question! I live in a small town, and I am quite familiar with the challenges that accompany this...(read more)

Women love a man who goes above and beyond to create a memorable experience. While dinner and a movie still reign...(read more)

When it comes to Facebook, it’s easy to start cyberstalking a guy we like, checking up on him every hour to see what...(read more)

So your girl is getting married and you’ve been tasked with throwing the bachelorette party. Bachelorette parties are...(read more)

Online dating has taken the relationship world by storm. In early 2012, several news organizations and agencies,...(read more)

Spring is here, and many people say it’s their favorite season. The cool of winter has given itself over to the kiss...(read more)

One of the coolest things about chatting online is the use of a distinct language spoken only on the Internet, a...(read more)

There are at least 43.8 million single women in America. Being single has many benefits. For starters, you have only one...(read more)

There are plenty of articles written for women looking to find Mr. Right online, but not too many are composed with men...(read more)