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The Short Version: When Troy Pummill and Judy Day met each other, they discovered that it was possible to find a unique type of relationship that is naturally easy, frictionless, and profoundly connected. That’s why they designed a system that rebuilds dating and relationships from the ground up. Following the Dating for True Love System (DTLS) can result in finding the deep, harmonious, frictionless love that singles really want. Their dating and Loveship website introduces daters to the system and shows them how to find a Loveship of their own
When Troy Pummill ’s 22-year marriage ended in divorce, he said he felt like he was getting a second chance at life. Being free meant that he could try again, but he didn’t know exactly what he wanted. There was one thing of which he was certain: He wanted something more profound than the relationships he’d had in the past that took persistent effort but provided minimal satisfaction.
As soon as he started dating, Troy had a first date experience that radically altered his views on both dating and relationships. This discovery would eventually lead to him to create the Dating for True Love System (DTLS), a system he developed as he dated and which culminated in meeting Judy Day.
“From our very first moments, it was clear that she was naturally meant for me. The only way to describe it is that I knew more about her in two hours than I did my wife of 20 years,” Troy said. “There was such an amazing, divine feeling of connection. Everything I thought I knew about dating and love was rendered completely useless. I didn’t have to ask her to explain herself. I knew exactly what she was saying. We discussed everything and anything under the sun because we just had this amazing connection.”
About 45 minutes into the date, Troy said he could feel a wave of peace wash over them. He felt that they weren’t choosing this relationship, but, instead, the relationship was choosing them. Their first date lasted seven hours. Since then, the couple has never missed a beat, said Troy.
They decided to share their groundbreaking dating methods and techniques with others on Bloved.com. Through the site, users can access Bloved’s DTLS, which helps daters understand how to find a Loveship — the next step beyond relationships.
The DTLS teaches singles how to identify people with whom they share the deepest connection, strongest affection, and the most extraordinary, unfading love. Troy and Judy describe it as those who are naturally right for you.
“When you know precisely who those people are, you can make a plan to find and date them,” Troy said. “And that’s how you find profound connection and a much deeper, truer love.”
“Relationships are about building and growing and learning to cooperate, but, with a 50% divorce rate, it’s clear that those concepts don’t produce happiness or lasting love, Judy said. “What works is to find those with whom you share a connection that doesn’t need to be built or grown – a deep pre-existing, built-in affinity. It’s like meeting the best romantic friend in the world you can imagine.”
The DTLS includes material that guides daters through the course. Those include the on-demand and live versions of The True Love System Seminar, the book “The Mirror Effect: More Than Soul Mates,” a Bloved profile specifically designed to find those who are meant for you, six months of access to live Q&A, support and coaching, and a host of other useful tools, including free lifetime access to their private online dating site (available only to DTLS graduates).
For those who want 24-hour access to the latest on Loveships, DTLS, and the dating world, Troy and Judy have produced a host of thought-leading videos for their Loveship Library to provide information about their radically different approach to finding epic love.
The Loveship Library explores many facets of finding love through the DTLS process— from the first date to learning the obstacles to finding a soul mate — and provides information about its radically different approach to finding epic love.
“Our mission is to change the world’s understanding of how love works … and you can’t change the world without helping each person along the way,” said Troy.
The Loveship Library was designed to help singles learn more about where love comes from and how to find it. Judy said the conventional wisdom that people often feel compelled to follow rarely leads them to find someone with whom they will have lasting love and true happiness.
But she understands how important it is to find that kind of relationship.
“Love makes a difference in every aspect of a person’s life,” Judy said. “ It’s the most important thing that determines how happy your life can be, and it also has an impact on your children and every other aspect of your life. This is pretty big for us.”
Troy and Judy said they believe that having access to materials on finding lasting love can be the difference between finding a relationship or Loveship. That’s why they’ve included a free informational blog on their website.
The blog includes expertise written from a DTLS perspective, TroyThought entries, and a host of dating tips that many singles today can use. In one blog entry, Troy gets personal with readers by sharing some of the secrets to the deep love connection he shares with Judy.
“There is hope for success if you are willing to think differently,” Troy wrote. “I’m not talking about avoiding the shark. I’m talking about a dating pool in which there is no shark! I have an amazing, deep love relationship with Judy. We’re not just part of the 20%, we’re part of the top 1%. We’re happy with each other more than 99% of the time.”
He goes on to say that meeting Judy was no accident. He found her by thinking differently, taking a new approach, and using both the Mirror Effect and 6 steps detailed in DTLS.
Troy and Judy said people who go through the system walk away with a greater sense of where they’ve been, how they got there, why relationships don’t work, and what they need to do going forward. All of this is part of their greater mission.
“We’re about closing out the age of divorce and opening up the age of loveship. We don’t call it a relationship because relationships are based on learning to relate to one another,” Troy said. “Relationships and love are two entirely different things. Just because you find a long-term relationship doesn’t mean you’ve found love. It’s sort of weird that we go off searching for relationships when we really ought to be searching for love.”
Judy said she is passionate about the system and loves working with people who are serious about finding true love.
“Troy went through this process to find me,” Judy said. “He met several other mirrors and developed this program. This system is really a life-changing mission for us, and it’s very connected to our life purpose, which is to help people find love.”