Top 10 Best Sites
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According to the CDC, 37.8 million adults in the US smoke cigarettes, and most of us probably know one of them. One of my exes is a smoker. It didn’t bother me when we started dating, but eventually I didn’t enjoy being around the smoke and smell. That’s just not who I am, and I didn’t want to make him stop or change who he is. It wasn’t the reason we broke up, but it contributed to the breakup.
Sometimes it’s easier when both people in the couple are smokers, which is why we’ve found the 10 go-to dating sites for single smokers (whether it’s cigarettes or pot) to connect.
Founded in 2013 by Friends Worldwide Inc. (a dating network that’s been in the industry for more than 10 years and has a portfolio of 75+ diverse and popular sites), Smoker Singles can help you find romance as well as friendship if that’s what you want. Here, there’s no lengthy questionnaire — just provide your age, location, gender, and interests, including lifestyle habits, and you’ll receive compatible matches.
The people behind Smoker Personals understand why smoking can be attractive, and they don’t want to feel bad about admitting that. On this site, everyone is on the same page — it doesn’t matter if you like tobacco, weed, or vaping. It’s free to join Smoker Personals, and you won’t have to pay to upload photos, view profiles, receive matches, and communicate in several ways.
Based in the UK, Smokers Match encourages you to “share your pack of 20 with a smoking partner.” Creating a profile will take just a couple of minutes, and all you have to specify is if you’re a man looking for a woman or a woman looking for a man, your first name, your birthday, and your email address. Then you can start searching and flirting. It’s all free!
If smoking and dating are among your passions, you probably want to check out Smoking Passions. The site considers itself a good place for dating as well as simply networking with potential friends and acquaintances. You have a lot of communication options on Smoking Passions as well, including group forums, live chat, webcams, and, of course, private messaging. The best part, though, is Smoking Passions doesn’t charge for anything.
Dating4U has a section called Find a Smoker USA that’s just for, you guessed it, meeting single smokers in the United States. The team says this is “the online dating site where genuine singles meet and form relationships.” Find a Smoker USA has more than 60,000 members, and features include basic and advanced search, instant messaging, video chat, SMS alerts, video profiles, dating diaries, and 24/7 customer support.
According to Smokers Personals, smokers “are a breed apart that brings back memories from more romantic Hollywood eras, when the hero or the beautiful leading lady in every movie had a cigarette between his or her fingers.” In addition to being a free dating site, Smokers Personals is also a property of Online Connections, which means your profile will appear on all of its sister sites if you feel like meeting people with other interests.
My 420 Mate caters to singles who enjoy smoking a joint, blunt, bowl, or bong every now and then (or every day!). The site is the self-proclaimed “#1 online dating site and mobile dating app for 420-friendly singles,” and it’s been featured in media outlets like The New York Times, High Times, and CBS News. My 420 Mate is available for free via desktop, the App Store, and Google Play.
A few simple steps are all you need to complete to join 420 Singles for free: 1) Provide your username, email, password, and nickname. 2) Fill out the About Me section. 3) Select your birthday, gender, and the gender you’re interested in. 4) Identify the country, state, city, and zip code where you live. 5) List your sexual orientation, and relationship status. 6) And specify whether you’re a gamer and if you believe in ghosts, UFOs, and souls.
High There is known as “the cannabis social network.” Not only can you meet people for free — but you can also read advice and news articles about the weed industry. You can also buy merchandise, including T-shirts, tank tops, hats, and trays for rolling joints and blunts. One happy user, named RollTideFever123, said: “This app right here makes you go, ‘Oh, high there.’ Very well thought of, and it’s absolutely perfect for its market. Thank you because it’s safe and reliable. Y’all are some awesome possums!”
Smoking Date is a straightforward dating site — the team says it’s more of a community: “We don’t discriminate. We don’t judge. We’d just like to think we’ve created a community in which anyone can be honest, feel welcome, and can focus on meeting new people and finding love!” Smoking Date wants you to enjoy smoking if that’s what you want to do, and it wants to connect you with those who feel the same.
I probably won’t date a smoker again, but that doesn’t mean I won’t be friends with them or that they deserve to be bullied by others who disagree with their lifestyle choices. These 10 dating sites are judgment-free spaces where smokers can come together for camaraderie, companionship, dating, and anything else they might be looking for.