Make A Senior Woman Go Crazy About You

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How to Make a Senior Woman Go Crazy About You

April Braswell

Written by: April Braswell

April Braswell

April Braswell is a senior dating expert, dating coach and professional dating profile writer. She leads dating, relationship and communication skills workshops throughout California.

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Edited by: Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.

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If you’re a single senior man who’s ready for a relationship, maybe it’s time to discover how to make a senior woman go crazy about you. You can win her heart with a few expert tips.

Say you’re a single senior who’s looking for long-term love. Maybe you’ve already found the senior lady who makes you feel on top of the world. When it comes to senior love, romance can still curl our toes, make us giggle, and give us nervous butterflies just like it did in high school. Real love and romance know no age.

Once you’ve found that special woman, you want to win her to be yours. Take our advice to make your senior lady crazy about you. 

It Starts With Your First Approach

If you’re still looking for a happily-ever-after ending, you have to be intentional to create the romance. And winning a single woman over starts from the very beginning of your interaction. We senior women want men to act like gentlemen and approach us with romantic overtures. Even if we’re meeting on a senior online dating site, the expectation is that singles show respect and pay compliments.

Your first message should reflect that you actually read her dating profile and thought up an original response to it. Don’t just comment on her photos. You can stand out by showing you took the time to consider more than just how she looks. Exchange several messages to demonstrate your ability to socialize and sustain a conversation. Then you can ask her out for a first date. 

Emphasize Romance on the First Date

Many singles prefer getting coffee together for a first date activity because it is casual and affordable. Whether you’re meeting at a Starbucks or a classy restaurant, be gallant: pull out her chair for her to sit down, bring her the sweetener and napkins from the condiment bar, look into her eyes when she is speaking, or welcome her with a single rose.. She will be impressed that you made that extra effort to be romantic. Many single men don’t bother with these old-fashioned practices, but they can really make a senior woman go crazy for you.

Give a senior woman a rose to show you know how to treat a lady.

So many of today’s singles have gotten impatient with the dating process. They treat the first date as if it were a speed dating session or a drive-thru experience. They want instant chemistry — or they’re out the door. You can distinguish yourself by being more considerate and patient and letting the moment unfurl as it comes.

Courtly gestures — like bringing her a single rose — can slow things down and set the tone for romance on your first meeting. You show your thoughtfulness and chivalrous side. You can say to her, “It’s so beautiful. I thought you would really enjoy it.” It’s a sweet way to touch the heart during a first meeting.

Senior First Date Tip

Inviting a woman to have a drink with you can be a casual way to break the ice. Maybe you two are meeting for afternoon coffee, or maybe you’re sharing a bottle of wine at the local wine bar after work. If you’re the one who asked her out, you should offer to pay. Offer her an appetizer or pastry and order one yourself to share the experience as well. If there’s a menu, open it up and explore it together. You both can learn something about each other’s tastes as you review the menu together. A simple: “Are you hungry? Want to split an appetizer or dessert?” can show her you care and want to have a good time.

The whole mood you’re setting is for enjoying a light and flirtatious experience. We recommend you slow down and take smaller bites as the conversation continues. Ask her about her dietary requirements and preferences. Soliciting a senior woman’s taste and respecting her opinion can make her feel excited about a relationship with you.

Trigger the romantic feelings hormone with your senior date to make her crazy for you by sharing bites of food together. If the romance is smoldering, feel free to offer to feed her one bite of your food selection. Just do so in a way that lets her say no graciously. 

Make a Bold Move

Flirt and be playful throughout your date. Signal to her that you want to build intimacy and maybe get to the point of kissing. Pay attention to her body language to make sure she feels comfortable and wants the same thing. Some senior women feel a kiss on a first date is too soon, and others are willing to take that step for the right person.

You may want to test the physical chemistry by reaching for her hand or letting your leg touch hers under the table. Either way, she will flirt and banter back if she’s interested. If she pulls away, you know you still have some work to do to build the smoldering fire of flirtation. Respect her boundaries and don’t press the issue — with some patience, you’ll make your senior lady go crazy about you.

Senior couples can form intimate connections by reading subtle body language cues.

Be playful, but be sincere. Take the lead in honest conversation, and don’t shy away from cheesy bold gestures if it feels right.

Make your feelings clear by reaching for her hand or leaning in for a kiss — even if it’s just on the cheek — during your time together. By deftly combining gallantry with some fun flirtation, you can captivate your senior lady’s heart and make her go crazy over you! 

Figure Our Her Love Language

Once you two are in a romantic senior relationship, continue sharing thoughtful gestures with her. You can get insights into how to show and receive love by reading Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages. It could even be fun to read together as a couple’. Once you figure out your partner’s love language, it’s easier to impress her with your words, acts, time, gifts, or physical touch.

Just remember, there is no one formula to achieve love, no roadmap to follow. It is negotiated between two people with unique personalities and expectations. While men sometimes want to distill romance down to a Senior Romance Technical Guide, it is rarely so simple. We all have different love languages, and we need to be respectful of each other’s different styles and desires.

Keep the Classics in Senior Romance

Most senior women respond tenderly to classic love gestures. Just don’t let them become trite and perfunctory. Gents, I know it can be difficult to know what a woman wants. But if you stick to the classic romantic gestures, you’ll be in good shape. Women want to be wooed with flowers, compliments, and genuine expressions of kindness. It could be as simple as remembering her favorite color and offering her a flower in that color or wearing a piece of clothing that matches.

Don’t just put that effort into the first date. Make sure to continually show that special senior lady that she’s important to you. Even if you have to set a reminder in your phone to pick up a different kind of flower. Trust me, she’ll swoon to hear you say, “I was walking by the florist, and they just happened to have these today, and I thought of you. I had to get them for you!” 

When you offer your wit, your flirtations, your heart and gallantry to your senior lady, rest assured that you have all it takes to make a senior woman go crazy about you! If the muse strikes, you can write your own senior romance story or pen a senior love song and win her heart with words of gratitude and love.

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