Show Her The Love With These Simple Tips

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Show Her the Love With These Simple Tips

Robert Rodriguez

Written by: Robert Rodriguez

Robert Rodriguez

I am a dating and self-actualization coach based in Austin, Texas. I have trained with some of the best in the seduction industry. My areas of expertise include dating, online dating, body language, meeting in bars, text game and inner game. You can send me an email at

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Whether you’re dating or in a relationship, making your woman feel loved is key. It is the gateway that will open up everything else in your life.

There are many different ways to accomplish this. The following tips are some of the most effective and best ways to make your woman feel loved.

1. Listen to her

Listening to her is a great way to make her feel loved because it shows you care about her point of view. As we all know, women like to feel connected to their man. One of the main ways to do this is through talking.

Even when you are busy or doing something else, make sure to make eye contact and give cues that you are processing what she is saying. Even if you aren’t listening, just giving the impression you are works as well.

Make sure to remain nonjudgmental and try not to interrupt too much.

As Randi Gunther, Ph.D., said in Psychology Today, the whole point is to let her express what she needs to express. She will thank you for being a good listener.

2. Surprise her

Women love surprises. It makes them feel special. Whether the surprise is big or small, it’s the thought that counts in their eyes.

Schedule some time out of your day to bring home a flower and a love note, or you could plan an adventure. One of the keys to a good surprise is knowing what she likes. If she likes chocolate, you can bring that along when you meet up with her.

Surprises show thoughtfulness, planning and that she is special to you. Women need this from time to time so they can be reminded they are remaining a priority in your mind.

3. Share your day with her

Sharing is an important part of connection. Sharing your day with her lets her know you desire to form a connection. It also helps her know more about you as a person.

Take some time at the end of the day to call her or to sit down with her and give her a brief overview of how your day went and what you did. This shows you care, and she will feel special due to that.

4. Take charge

When you take on the masculine role and take charge, your woman will feel loved. It is human nature for women to feel protected and taken care of when their man is taking charge.

This means taking the lead and planning out dates, valuing yourself and making the first move when it comes to anything, according to David Deangelo in his AskMen article titled “Make Her Feel Special and More.”

If the weekend is coming up fast, plan out a date so she doesn’t have to do any of the thinking. Be considerate of her as well during the planning.

Whisk her away on the date with no questions asked and pay for everything. Odds are, if you really take charge, she will offer to take some of the bill anyway and will end up reciprocating the effort back to you.

5. Make her feel attractive

Give her compliments from time to time. Be careful not to overdo it, but make sure you are doing it on a daily or every other day basis.

It is important because women need to feel wanted. Feeling wanted develops closeness, so make sure to compliment her from time to time.

As a bonus, it will raise her confidence level and make her less likely to need validation from other sources.

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