Love Messages For Her

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13 Best Love Messages for Her (Sweet, Deep & Hot)

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Written by: Hunt Ethridge

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Being in a relationship is awesome. You get to listen, talk, laugh, tease, cuddle, and touch. However, you’re probably not always around your significant other as much as you’d like to be, so it’s nice to remind her how you feel about her.

Flowers are great, and they signify that you were thinking of her and wanted to get something unexpected to show her how much she means to you. However, what I really like are love messages (whether they’re notes, texts, or emails).

While I could fill a book with everything you could write down and send to your special someone, I just wanted to give you a few quotes and thoughts from myself and other people that will hopefully make her day.

Overall | Sweet | Deep | Hot | Good Morning/Night

Best Love Messages for Her (#1-4)

These are my favorite love messages of all time. They encompass joy, the madness of passion, and the wonderful irrationality of love.

1. “Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song. At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet.” — Plato

This quote is in my top 13 because not only are you looking smart by quoting Plato, but it speaks to the theory of soul mates: that there is someone out there who will help you feel complete. Also this quote explores the fun, irrational side of love that makes us all turn into a sappy poet.

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Being in love makes a lot of people feel like they can write like a poet.

2. “I had forgotten that when you love someone, the world becomes brighter, your senses are heightened. Not only have you opened my heart for you, but you have opened it to the world.” — Hunt Ethridge

I like this quote because it shows that love not only is great in and of itself, but it makes the world better and makes you appreciate the wonderful things around you.

3. “I am watching your chest/Rise and fall/Like the tides of my life/And the rest of it all/And your bones have been my bed frame/And your flesh has been my pillow.” — Ani DiFranco

I just love this quote because I imagine someone looking at their sleeping lover and thinking of how important she’s been in his life.

4. “Being with you makes me realize how lacking all my other relationships were. You check off boxes that I didn’t even know I wanted or needed. You’re my copilot, my friend, my lover, and my everything.” — Hunt Ethridge

Love is wonderful, and it should be the joining of two equals, excitedly headed off into the future.

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It’s nice to remind your partner that you two are in this for the long haul.

Top “Sweet” Love Messages for Her (#5-7)

Relationships have a sweet tooth. While we love to chew on the real “meat” of the relationship, we also need to feed the sweetness. Sometimes it can seem a little over-saccharine-y, but, hey, so is love.

5. “If I had a flower for every time I thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” — Alfred Tennyson

This message is just a gentle reminder of how much you think of your partner.

6. When I see the way that you look at me, my heart swells with joy, the butterflies whirl in my gut, and the rest of the world seems to melt away.” — Hunt Ethridge

You’re telling your partner that not only do you love her, but it’s amazing for you to see how much she loves you.

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If she still gives you butterflies in your stomach, tell her.

7. “Before I met you/I was me but not the me/I knew I could be.” — Hunt Ethridge

Haikus are the easiest form of poetry to write: three lines, five syllables, seven syllables, five syllables. Poems will never go out of style, and this is an easily accessible format for you to impress.

Top “Deep” Love Messages for Her (#8-9)

While love and relationships are fun and sexy and joyful, they’re also deep and profound. Sometimes you want to dive deeper than casual compliments and really let the person understand how much she means to you.

8. “To the world, you may be one person, but to one person you are the world.” — Bill Wilson

This quote goes to show that when you have the right person, it doesn’t matter what else is going on in your life. Your world revolves around that person.

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When we’re truly happy with someone, it feels like they mean the world to us.

9. “I have never let myself be so vulnerable with anyone else before. In my fear and trepidation, I gave you my heart. You have held it and nurtured it, and because of you I am a better man.” — Hunt Ethridge

Often, men aren’t taught how to convey deep emotion and appear vulnerable, but the strongest and most confident people are those who can open up.

Top “Hot” Love Messages for Her (#10-11)

Sometimes you gotta tell it like it is. We’re all (or aspire to be) good men, but, at the same time, we’re sexual creatures. And you know what? So is she!

10. “I need you to fill my senses. I want to hear your breath catch. I crave smelling your intoxicating scent. I yearn to taste the saltiness of your curves. I need to feel your fingernails on my back. I crave to see your flesh unwrapped.” — Hunt Ethridge

Love affects all aspects of life, including your senses. Let her know just how all-encompassing your feelings are for her.

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Love affects us in all kinds of ways: emotionally, mentally, and physically.

11. “Your lips are like honey, and your hugs are warmer than the blanket. Your kisses are like wine, and I want to get drunk tonight.” — Hunt Ethridge

I’ve always liked this quote and used to use it as a sweet, lil’ pick-up line.

Top “Good Morning/Night” Love Messages for Her (#12-13)

The words you use first thing in the morning and as the last thing at night can be important. You either send your partner to bed with offers of sweet and sexy dreams or start off her day by making her feel good about herself.

12. “There’s only one thing in the world that has proved to wake me up better than coffee. It’s morning sex with you.” — Hunt Ethridge

You just want to remind her of wonderful and sexy mornings.

13. There’s only one thing better than going to sleep next to you and that is waking up every day knowing you’ll be next to me.” — Hunt Ethridge

While most of the time it’s amazing and hot to fall asleep next to someone, especially after sex, it’s only the really good partners who we look forward to waking up next to.

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We know we’re with someone special if we look forward to waking up next to them.

Happy Writing!

We all love to be reminded that someone is thinking about us and that we can inspire such passion and joy. Not only can you send these little words through email or text, but the next time you’re in her home, bring a Post-It and start hiding quotes and sweet words all over her place. Then, even when you’re not there, she’ll find things reminding her of how much she means to you.

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