Most guys hate asking other people for advice. Whether it’s for driving directions or dating, pretty much no man wants to admit both to himself — let alone to anyone else — that he’s lost. Fortunately, the internet has allowed the modern man to get the answers he seeks without losing face.
Conduct a simple search, read a few articles, and no one’s the wiser. Just remember to clear out your browsing history when you’re satisfied. If you’ve got some pressing questions about the dating world, then look to the following dating blogs for men for guidance. These blogs should get you back on track in no time.
David Wygant
David Wygant is a normal guy who became a dating and relationship coach to help other men avoid common dating mistakes. Wygant doesn’t appeal to one specific set of guys; his clients run the gamut in terms of age, orientation, ethnicity, and social status. Every month, 1.7 million men turn to him for advice.
Social Clout: 10,217+ Facebook likes; 8,347+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @Davidwygant
URL: davidwygant.com
Men's Health
It might be a little (OK, a lot) raunchy, but “the world’s largest men’s magazine” puts out a gem or two on a regular basis. It also distributes a multitude of newsletters to subscribe to, giving you the choice of whether you’ll go to the information or if it will come to you.
Social Clout: 8.7M+ Facebook likes; 4.5M+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @MensHealthMag
HowStuffWorks
HowStuffWorks details how the world works. Dating is part of the world, so obviously it’s covered here. The category isn’t totally centered on men and questions they’ll have, but most of the entries are about wooing women. These listicles provide a great introduction to dating advice.
Social Clout: 2.5M+ Facebook likes; 138,200+ Twitter followers
Match
Match is DA’s top pick of dating sites, coming in with 4.9 out of 5 stars. Its blog is pretty fantastic, too. Its advice is aimed for both genders, though some pieces are solely focused for guys. The navigation is a selling point, too, directing users to trending pages, related pages and more. Guys might not find exactly what they’re looking for at first, but there’s still a treasure trove of information here.
Social Clout: 828K+ Facebook likes; 97,800+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @Match
URL: datingtips.match.com
AskMen
Reaching 14 million readers every month in the U.S. alone, AskMen is a smorgasbord of information on anything a guy could want. Guys want dates, so naturally the dating section of AskMen is filled with suggestions to improving game. Unlike most of the blogs on this list, though, AskMen goes an extra step and features parenting advice as well as dating tips.
Social Clout: 295K+ Facebook likes; 184,000+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @AskMen
URL: askmen.com/dating
eharmony
The best advice comes from those who know what they’re talking about, and eharmony fits the bill. Honestly, eharmony’s advice page has a little bit of everything: listicles, guest posts and general advice abounds. Since its launch in 2000, eharmony has created over 2 million love connections, and it continues to impress us with its psychology-driven insights into the human heart.
Social Clout: 249K+ Facebook likes; 61,600+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @eharmony
URL: eharmony.com/dating-advice/dating-tips-meneharmony.com/dating-advice/dating-tips-men
D'Marge
Based in Australia but with contributors around the world, D’Marge bills itself as “the thinking man’s style blog.” It leans into that identity by placing dating columns under vices. The articles are strong, though, and the occasional splash of humor helps break up the sameness you often get in self-improvement writing.
Social Clout: 35K+ Facebook likes; 6,007+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @IamDMarge
Art of Charm’s Art of Dating
If you want a little more visual polish with your reading, Art of Charm delivers. The site features four different “Art of…” categories, all aimed at making it “where ordinary guys become extraordinary men.” It has also been featured by several mainstream outlets, and there’s a podcast if you’d rather listen than read.
Social Clout: 42K+ Facebook likes; 131,700+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @TheArtofCharm
URL: theartofcharm.com/art-of-dating
James Michael Sama
Spreading the “New Chivalry Movement” through his blog, James Michael Sama prides himself on being a modern gentleman who is trying to change the way men relate to women and build relationships. His articles are written based on his own dating experiences, and he goes the extra mile by responding to comments, creating a discussion about the ideas presented. All in all, James is bringing romance back to the 21st century.
Social Clout: 141K+ Facebook likes; 90,000+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @JamesMSama
URL: jamesmsama.com
Single Black Male
Single Black Male earns its spot on the list because of its wide-ranging advice and clear focus, just as the name suggests. Even with that niche, though, SBM stays broad-minded thanks to its mix of staff writers and guest contributors offering “a 360-degree view” on all kinds of topics, so you can decide what advice fits you best.
Social Clout: 16K+ Facebook likes; 6,784+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @SingleBlackMale
URL: singleblackmale.org
Robert Manni
Robert Manni is the author of “The Guys’ Guy’s Guide to Love” and brings his 20 years of life experience in New York City to the web in his blog “On Life, Love and the Pursuit of Happiness.” In addition to dating tips, Manni has articles on being a “Guy’s Guy,” a respectable, upstanding man, in areas ranging from business to meditation.
Social Clout: 7,857+ Twitter followers; 5,111+ Facebook likes
Twitter Handle: @RobertManni
URL: robertmanni.com
The Guyliner
The Guyliner is a fun blog written by Justin Myers, a gay man living and dating in the U.K. The Guyliner’s stories are outright hilarious, and his dating tips are spot-on. Every story is an adventure, and his writing paints a more realistic picture of what it’s like to date in these complicated times. “I am lucky my readers seem to enjoy all these facets,” he said, “so one minute I can write something quite emotional and in-depth, and the next I can share something snarky or hilarious.”
Social Clout: 27,291+ Twitter followers
Twitter Handle: @Theguyliner
URL: theguyliner.com
Attraction Institute
The Attraction Institute was founded by Leigh Louey-Gung after he grew frustrated with the “Seduction Community.” He felt it pushed him to become a generic version of a man instead of the person he actually wanted to be. Rather than lean on tricks and tactics, The Attraction Institute focuses on helping guys tear down the subconscious barriers holding them back.
Social Clout: 2,722+ Facebook likes
URL: attractioninstitute.com
SoSuave
Featuring hundreds of pieces on topics like meeting, attracting and dating women, SoSuave has both in-depth essays and quick-hitting articles. Another positive is the site’s minimalist design prevents wandering eyes from getting distracted. It also hosts an active forum with more than 67,150 members.
URL: sosuave.com
