Do Liberals And Conservatives Have Different Sex

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Do Liberals and Conservatives Have Different Sex?

Dr. Wendy Walsh

Written by: Dr. Wendy Walsh

Dr. Wendy Walsh

Known as America's Relationship Expert, Dr. Wendy Walsh is an award-winning television journalist, radio host & podcaster, and the author of three books on relationships and thousands of print and digital articles. More than 1.5 million people follow her sage advice on social media. She holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and teaches in the Psychology Department at California State University Channel Islands and has been the host of "The Dr. Wendy Walsh Show" on iHeart Radio's KFI AM 640 since 2015. Walsh is also a former Emmy-nominated co-host of "The Doctors," as well as former host of the nationally syndicated show "EXTRA." She was named a Time Magazine Person of the Year in 2017 after speaking out about harassment at a major news network.

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The sex lives of Americans is ever changing according to psychologist Mark Regnerus Ph.D., whose provocative “Premarital Sex in America: How Young Americans Meet, Mate and Think about Marrying” makes that clear. Today, more than 90 percent of Americans have sex before they say “I do.”

Maybe we’re becoming more liberal with our sex lives, or maybe the sex lives of the red and blue don’t differ as much as we think they do. Whether conservative or liberal, emerging adults are having sex at the same rate.

According to Regnerus, “red” and “blue” differences over sex are less about sexual practices than mentalities. Young adult liberals engage in sex for enjoyment whereas conservatives feel compelled to motivate sex for reasons beyond that, to serve some overarching relational purpose.

Liberals are pragmatic while conservatives are idealistic.

In his extensive research on the sexual habits of young Americans, Regnerus found that liberals are pragmatic about sex and marriage while conservatives are more idealistic.

Blues are more likely than reds to pursue higher education. With that, they tend to be more strategic about their relationships, slower to sex and less likely to draw a strong link between sex and marriage. They are also less judgmental about the sex lives of others.

For liberals, it is not normative to marry before age 25. They tend to put education and career before relationships rather than trying to juggle school or a career, a marriage and kids. Thus, they tend to marry and bear children later. And as a result, they divorce less than conservatives.

Many Americans consider reds to be anti-premarital sex. Yet red states carry the highest numbers for teen pregnancy rates.

And get this: Eight of the top 10 states in terms of online porn consumption voted republican in the 2008 election.

Conservatives are no longer mostly Christians or devoutly religious. According to researchers at the University of Texas, the conservative subculture of American college students are quite sexually active.

Regardless of religiosity, conservatives tend to use sexual relationships to foster or follow marriage, even if they don’t actually get married as they intended.

It’s quick to sex and nearly as quick to marry. Marriage by age 25 is common. Those who aren’t married by 25 often feel they are at risk for never finding a spouse.

 

“We are becoming a culture

of serial monogamy.”

Education and gender appear to play a significant role.

Less educated conservative men have the highest number of recent sexual partners, averaging 2.5 per year, while red, educated women are the most sexually conservative and risk averse. These women have brains and when they have sex, they do it in relational patterns that emphasize commitment.

Today, marriage is on the decline and it’s predicted that America is steering toward a blue future. Not necessarily as liberal as Europe, but we are becoming a culture far more accepting of cohabitation and children born out of wedlock.

Babies are being born out of wedlock at a rate of 40 percent, while in 1940 only 4 percent of babies were born out of wedlock. Many of these nonmarital births are intentional, especially to long-term cohabitators.

While most Americans still wish to marry, we are becoming a culture of serial monogamy where cohabitating and having children before marriage is not uncommon. This results in later and fewer marriages as well as a fertility decline.

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