Matches By Design Pairs Successful Men And Women

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Matches By Design: A High-End Matchmaking Firm That Pairs Successful Men With Exceptional Women

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The Short Version: Based in the heart of Texas, Matches By Design offers hands-on matchmaking services for men interested in a real and lasting relationship. Since 2016, the matchmaking firm has worked to grow its influence in the dating world and connect quality singles in a more efficient and streamlined way. The company may be new on the block, but its straightforward three-step matchmaking process has yielded fast results for clients. Matches By Design understands that dating on your own can be frustrating, and the team seeks to offer valuable assistance, including image consultations, dating coaching, and other concierge services, to make the experience more enjoyable and stress-free. Educated and successful singles can use Matches By Design as a resource to improve their love lives by networking with desirable dates.

Matchmaking is among the oldest professions in the world, but it has recently undergone a technological makeover. The meteoric rise in online dating in the last decade has forever changed how singles meet one another. In 2016, approximately 30% of American singles reported using online dating to find a date.

At its core, online dating is basically a new form of matchmaking — except algorithms have replaced human intuition. However, some single professionals still turn to traditional matchmakers when they want more personalization and less automation.

Matches By Design is a traditional matchmaking company with headquarters in The Woodlands, Texas. Shirl Hooper founded the firm on March 18, 2016 to give singles a hassle-free and high-quality way to meet attractive individuals. It’s a small family-run business with big plans to grow.

These elite matchmakers specialize in introducing successful single men to date prospects that meet their high standards. They cater to the needs and desires of their clients and screen all potential dates before arranging a first date.

“We love playing Cupid,” the matchmakers said, “and invest the time in each and every client to assure they find a catch and a keeper. We get to know our clients on a personal basis, and we are very supportive throughout the process.”

Based in Texas, the Company Grows an International Network

Matches By Design has established itself as a national and international resource for singles who want to upgrade their dating experiences. Busy professionals often find the endless swiping and messaging of online dating too time-consuming for their taste, so they turn to matchmakers who know what they’re doing.

These matchmakers do their level best to attract the most sought-after singles in the areas they serve — which includes cities all over the world.

Photo of Shirl Hooper, Founder and CEO of Matches By Design

After working in healthcare and publishing romance novels, Shirl Hooper decided to try her hand at matchmaking in 2016.

Shirl Hooper, the Founder and CEO of Matches By Design, is a certified matchmaker as well as a dating, relationship, and life coach with years of experience helping people find the life and the partner they want. She has a background as a popular contemporary romance author, so love is pretty much always on her mind. From start to finish, Shirl is a passionate and enthusiastic partner for anyone on the journey to love and happiness.

Carol Hooper is an administrative assistant at Matches By Design, which means she handles customer relations and office duties while Shirl handles the matches. Like Shirl, she has years of experience working in the healthcare field. Her outgoing nature and people skills complement Shirl’s natural-born intuition and thoughtful approach to matchmaking.

According to the matchmakers, “Matches By Design offers unparalleled service with a commitment to excellence. Our authenticity, passion and dedication to the unique mix helps singles to find and hold on to the love of their lives.”

Personalized Concierge Services Include Introductions & Coaching

Matches By Design offers a one-of-a-kind dating experience for single men of all ages. Men can enroll as clients by filling out an in-depth online application that includes sections for your basic information, contact information, appearance, lifestyle, and relationship goals. Men are encouraged to describe their dating history in as much detail as they like so the matchmakers have a good understanding of what patterns, obstacles, and preferences they’ll encounter when working together. Recently, the matchmaking company expanded to serve single gay men as well as straight men.

Women can join the database for free, but they will only be contacted if they are a match for Matches By Design’s male clients.

The matchmakers vet all new clients in a free 30-minute consultation via phone and only agree to take on men they believe they can help find love. Their process involves searching high-quality women in their database as well as in real life. The goal is to find someone who is compatible with the client in terms of interests, beliefs, values, and personality.

“Much of our success is due to our highly personalized concierge service.” — Matches By Design

Once they’ve taken on a client, the matchmakers will handle all the details of dating from sending flowers to providing post-date feedback. Shirl is a trained dating coach so she knows how to point out what her clients can improve upon to make a better first impression. She can also offer image consultations to help men look their best.

Matches By Design is a full-service matchmaking company that is there for clients throughout the dating process. The team will handle the logistics of the date so that all you have to worry about is showing up and having a great time.

An Enthusiastic Team Serves Worldly Single Men Over 40

The clients who apply to Matches By Design don’t want to meet just anybody — they want to meet The One. The targeted approach of a professional matchmaker appeals to them. They don’t want to spend months talking to people online; they want to actually get out there and meet compatible singles in their area. Plus, the post-date feedback allows singles to remove the guesswork and uncertainty from the dating landscape.

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The matchmaking services of Matches By Design bolster wealthy and successful men.

Because of its thorough and time-saving methods, the matchmaking agency sees mostly working professionals who are over the age of 40. The typical client is a man who’s tired of dating on his own and getting nowhere. Maybe he’s having trouble meeting people, or maybe he’s having trouble meeting the right people. Either way, he expects Matches By Design to improve his chances of finding a lasting love.

Matches By Design’s matchmaking services provide a go-to solution for men in variety of professions, including corporate executives, attorneys, physicians, entrepreneurs, and politicians. Whether you’re a self-made man or a hard-working engineer, you can trust these matchmakers to be flexible to your lifestyle and attentive to your needs.

If you want to invest in love, you can hire your own personal love consultants at Matches By Design. “Our goal is to continue to grow and network our business embracing our brand standards,” the matchmakers said.

Matches By Design is a Targeted Approach to Finding Love

Some aspects of dating and relationships have changed because of technology, but the fundamentals of love have remained the same. People still want a life partner who will be there for them in good times and bad, someone they can talk to about anything, and someone who wants the same things in life.

Singles’ desires and preferences haven’t really changed, but the way they seek a date has. Matches By Design has kept up with the times by providing an easy on-boarding experience and hands-on matchmaking assistance for clients in search of the real deal. Shirl and Carol have put a lot of thought into how they match people up and the services they offer because their goal is to stay a step ahead of online dating and maintain a truly effective matching system.

“We are bold in our moves, theories, and applications to ensure we present our brand of passion for love and relationships,” the matchmakers said. “We have studied love for years. Our company has a firm love foundation, sets trends, leads in matchmaking, and is here for the duration.”

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