About the Expert

About the Expert

Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

Senior Editor

Lillian Guevara-Castro edits news content across all verticals at Digital Brands, applying her 30 years of experience as a writer and editor to take DatingAdvice articles to the next level. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, Gwinnett Daily News (GA), Gainesville Sun (FL), and The New York Times, where she covered lifestyle trends, among other topics. Lillian has a degree in journalism and communications from Georgia State University and brings her fact-checking expertise to ensure all content is accurate and engaging.

The Short Version: Spiritual teacher Ram Dass famously said, “If you think you are enlightened, go home and spend a week with your family.” That’s... Read More »

The Short Version: Dating can get expensive when singles are trying to impress a prospective partner with dinner, flowers, or even a new outfit. The last... Read More »

The Short Version: Many dating sites value attractiveness over every other quality a person possesses. So singles may overlook the most interesting or... Read More »

The Short Version: Mainstream dating apps and sites don't always have the right vibes or enough hardcore people to interest certain singles. That's why... Read More »

We’ve seen so many shifts in dating, sex, and relationships over the past year, and I hope some of them are here to stay. The dating app Plenty of Fish... Read More »

With the holiday season approaching and the world opening up a bit more, you will likely have more opportunities to meet with family.  Maybe it’s your... Read More »

Before you know it, your favorite radio station has started to play your favorite holiday songs. Your favorite store is packed with stocking stuffers and... Read More »

The Short Version: Few memorable romantic getaways start with a seaplane. But that’s the only way to access the Clayoquot Wilderness Lodge in Vancouver... Read More »

The Short Version: The American Psychological Association (APA) has published several studies on the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic on romantic... Read More »

The Short Version: Anyone who has tried online dating knows choosing the wrong site can be a frustrating waste of time. Fake photos, inactive profiles, and... Read More »

Saying “I love you” for the first time is a monumental moment in a relationship. The timing will look different for different couples because love develops... Read More »

After years of working to establish a solid career and reputation, older men can find themselves at a loss for ways to meet younger women outside of work... Read More »

Conversation starters are crucial for any good date. They help you break the ice and get to know your date better.  It can be hard to know what to... Read More »

The Short Version: Finding a meaningful relationship in the Jewish community can be challenging in today's climate. Swiping apps often emphasize dating for... Read More »

As LGBTQ+ acceptance becomes more widespread, queer dating sites offer more and more options to non-straight people looking to chat, match, date, and hook... Read More »

First dates can be some of the most magical experiences, or they can be downright panic inducing!   A good first date can make time fly by and... Read More »

Creating an attractive gay dating profile starts with having good photos. Gay men are extremely visual (sometimes to a fault), so single men need to take... Read More »

The Short Version: It takes courage for singles who want to hook up to put themselves out there. Some online daters feel uncomfortable with the raunchy... Read More »

If you aren’t dating with confidence, your dating life may feel out of control. You may find rejection very painful and difficult to manage.  You may... Read More »

Dating is supposed to be fun. It is supposed to bring romance and excitement to everyday life. But those of us who have been in the trenches of online... Read More »