5 Changes That Can Increase Your Success With Women

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5 Changes That Can Increase Your Success with Women

Alex Matlock

Written by: Alex Matlock

Alex Matlock

If you want to increase your success with women, visit ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.

Edited by: Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.

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There are a lot of things out there that will directly affect your success with women.

The items on this list are probably the easiest and quickest things you can apply right now in order to get almost instant results.

1. Believe all women are equal.

This is probably one of the best things you can EVER do.

Think about the least attractive chick you’ve ever banged. Let’s say she was a five (out of 10) and that’s your absolute lowest standard.

Wasn’t it easy to attract her? Of course it was, because you couldn’t care less if it went either way.

Now, if you see a chick that’s a 10, would you treat her differently? You probably will because she’s a 10 and you’d think she deserves some special treatment.

Well, this special treatment you often give to “hotter” girls is what really stops you from scoring them.

If you’d believe all women are equal and a 10 doesn’t really deserve any special treatment, your successful attraction behavior would be the one you actually use with them and will be the one that actually allows you to attract them.

Make it your mission to see all girls the same. There is no 10 and no hottie. They’re just OK.

Convince your mind to lower their value because it will allow you to have tighter game.

2. Don’t ask for her permission.

I see so many guys doing this that I actually laugh when it happens. They ask a girl, “Do you want to dance? Can I kiss you? Can I have your phone number?”

What happened to just taking a girl on the dance floor? What happened to just saying, “Give me your phone number so I/we can…” What happened to just going in for the kiss?

And finally, what happened to just being a man? Do you really need to ask for her permission? Of course not.

Because most guys never get asked for their permission, they are absolutely oblivious to how lame this makes them look.

Asking for permission makes you look incredibly weak, unsure about yourself, scared of rejection.

It also creates an awkward moment in which the girl actually has to think about kissing/dancing with you, an awkward moment in which she has time to think about how weak you are and come up with a way to reject you.

This unnecessary moment could have been easily avoided just by doing it instead of asking her for permission.

“If you’re a man of mystery, the chick

will want to know more about you.”

3. Embrace rejection.

This is probably the most common issue guys have – fear of rejection.

Rejection is natural. It’s a common occurrence. It will be IMPOSSIBLE for anyone to avoid rejection. Therefore, we should embrace it as part of our life.

Honestly, I personally get rejected more often than I score. I’m also sure this is the case with MOST guys who actually get laid often.

My current ratio is around one bang out of three to four approaches.

Sure, some nights it’s the first chick and other nights it’s nothing, but overall I’m around one in three to four, which means that’s around 28 percent success rate.

This also makes my rejection percentage 72 percent. That’s huge!

The only way to ever beat this fear of rejection is to expect it every time.

If you’re absolutely sure this girl will reject you, then you won’t have any problem approaching her and getting rejected.

If you get rejected, simply remember what you did/said and never use it again. Then by the time you’re at your sixth girl, you’re most surely going to have something good to say.

Finally, if you’re the “love thyself” type that still fears rejection, know that being with you is the best experience any woman can have, and if she rejects you, she just lost the best thing that could ever happen to her.

There’s no point in drooling over this fact since she’s the only one that’s losing out.

4. Be a man of mystery.

Most guys make offers (tell everything about them) in hopes a chick will like them.

This can sometimes land you the girl (if the offer is good enough and she’s somewhat materialistic) but not always.

If you’re a man of mystery, you create intrigue and the chick will want to know more about you.

This basically means you’re creating interest in yourself. She wants to know more about you, thus having a lot of reasons to keep talking to you and see you again.

This gives you plenty of time to spit real game, which will inevitably lead to a lay regardless of how good your initial offer would have been.

In order to play the man of mystery card, just avoid her direct questions about yourself in a funny way or by asking more questions about herself.

This will also allow you to mold your personality based on what she desires, dramatically increasing your chances of scoring the lay.

5. Don’t be boring.

Being boring doesn’t just apply to your conversation with her. Being boring is about yourself.

If a chick sees you just standing there with your friends or alone at the bar on your phone or watching the bar TV, she’ll already assume you’re boring.

By the time you get the courage to approach her, you’re already that boring guy who was just standing there a minute ago.

So don’t just stand there looking like a total buzzkill. Talk to your friends, someone at the bar, anyone. Just don’t act like you have nothing to do.

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free ebook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit ThePlayerGuide.Com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.

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