Bryan Reeves Helps Clients Who Are Succeeding In Life But Frustrated In Love

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Transformational Life and Relationship Coach Bryan Reeves Helps Clients Who are Succeeding in Life But Frustrated in Love

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The Short Version: Los Angeles-based Relationship Coach Bryan Reeves has lived an adventurous life filled with unexpected twists and turns. Becoming a coach and author was not a clearly marked path, but rather one he discovered by learning from his own relationship mistakes and studying what makes lasting bonds tick. Today, he is focused on helping men and women who are aching to be happy and thrive with a partner understand how to apply the right tools to get their desired results. A teacher by nature, it’s Bryan’s goal to expand his clients’ awareness of what it means to be successful in love and life.

Relationship Coach Bryan Reeves achieved career heights as a Captain in the United States Air Force and catapulted his family’s business into a multimillion-dollar company. But, even after experiencing such success, deep down he knew something was missing.

“When I turned 36, the most significant relationship of my life of five years was imploding and in chaos,” he said. “I asked myself ‘What am I missing? What is it that I don’t know that someone should have told me a long time ago?’”

In his search for answers, Bryan learned the true meaning of intimacy by understanding how to give and receive love.

“I had no idea what a woman really wanted from me in intimacy,” he said. “And I didn’t even know what I wanted from a woman in intimacy. That led me down the rabbit hole of discovery.”

By turning inward, Bryan was able to get in touch with who he really was, which led him to uncover the key to opening up intimacy with others — being true to his authentic self. He knew the steps to change his own life could help transform the lives of men, women, and couples across the globe and, thus, his career as a Life and Relationship Coach began.

Bryan thrives on helping others tap into the unknown areas of life and love they have yet to discover. His clients’ lives have been positively changed through his Transformational Life Coaching Journeys.

“The things I wanted to talk about got addressed in ways I didn’t even expect,” Bryan’s client Matthew said. “They say you can’t solve a problem at the same level of thinking that created it, and in just one conversation we got through to the deeper stuff that supported this breakthrough.”

A Relationship Course Redefines “Connection”

Bryan developed a revolutionary 10-hour audio program called Love, Sex, Relationship Magic, which helps clients break free from old patterns while embracing authentic relationships. In this program, Bryan acts as your personal guide to teach you how to experience gratitude in a relationship, bring an end to deeply rooted arguments, and bring your whole self into a mutually-rewarding romance.

Men and women testify to the life-changing experience they’ve had with this program.

“I gained greater insight into myself, my limiting beliefs and specific needs — most profoundly, the areas of self-love I have been denying myself for so long as I put everyone else first,” Bryan’s client Andrea said. “[Bryan’s] guidance around how men think will forever alter how I interact with intimate partners.”

For a negligible fee, you can download the Boundaries program, which is designed for anyone who wants to feel safe being themselves.

“If you don’t feel safe in your relationship, then intimacy and passion cannot exist,” he said.

This program awakens you to the art of honoring your personal boundaries while asserting your needs with clarity and intention. It also includes detailed scripts to support you in knowing how and when to speak your truth in love.

Writing That Calls Love in While Pushing Fear Out

Bryan’s blog has inspired hundreds of thousands of men and women to live their most authentic lives. In 2015, he made a bold decision to choose faith in life over fear. A soulful retreat to Idaho proved to be the universal connection he needed to awaken his most intimate desire: to have a life companion. And he shared his experience through his writing.

“I have lived a blessed, magical life. I’ve adventures all over the world, trekked across deserts and oceans,” he wrote in a post. “I’ve loved many women and left or lost every one. I thought ‘Here I am, once again, enjoying another magical moment… but all alone.’”

In that moment, Bryan said he decided he wanted a soul connection that would fulfill his every desire. Months would pass before he met the woman who is now his divine partner, Silvy. With hearts and souls woven together so intricately, he said he is grateful he followed his intuition that led him to the woman of his dreams.

“I’m profoundly aware that I had to trust my heart’s inner knowing and journey alone to the middle of nowhere to find the quiet place where I could finally discover her,” he said.

The blog speaks to the heart of relevant issues in dating relationships, the power of meditation, the stages of love, and understanding the masculine and feminine mind. Bryan’s also a blog contributor for Good Men Project, Elephant Journal, Raw Attraction Magazine, and Sexy Conscious Awake.

Books Teaching Readers to Stay True to Themselves & Take Charge of Their Lives

In his book “Tell The Truth, Let the Peace Fall Where It May,” Bryan takes readers into the depths of discovering what it means to be truly transparent and honest with yourself and others. He will help you harness your inner power to speak and profess your innermost needs.

The intention of the book is to transform your life from good to great. Bryan believes all people were born with a clear purpose that makes us phenomenal beings.

He covers three essential points that will break the cycle of playing small in the big, wide world.

“One is knowing how and why most people live disconnected from their authentic truth every day,” he said. “The next is realizing what that chronic disconnection costs in joy, intimacy, fulfillment, and vitality. The third point is what it could look like to live every moment in our authentic truth.”

Bryan’s second book “The Sex, Flirting, Dating, Hunting & Hoping Diet” is available for free on Kindle. This is a 30-day challenge to restore your sanity around relationships, sex, love, and romance. Written purposely for men and women who struggle with equating their self-worth to external validation, he wants you to know it’s time to reset your foundation by knowing how to love yourself from the inside out.

For Bryan, Honoring His Clients’ Journeys is Paramount

Bryan said he’ll continue to answer the call of his life’s purpose for as long as there are hearts, souls, and relationships in need of healing. He said he is truly motivated to help others live their best lives possible because he spent almost 20 years fighting against life.

“We are innocent in our ignorance,” he said. “Once you’re willing to expand your awareness and connect with your soul’s desires, only then can life bring you the best it has to offer.”

Stay tuned for more details about Bryan’s Membership Program, which will be available in December or January.

“Bryan Reeves takes the idea of telling ‘the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth’ to a deeper level,” said Spiritual Teacher and Author Marianne Williamson. “He’s committed to an authentic search for the love that’s at the heart of things, and reading his book you feel more committed to it, too. He’s a warrior for love in every sense of the word.”

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