The Relationship Coach Guides People To A Deeper Level Of Connection

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The Relationship Coach™ Guides Singles & Couples to a Deeper Level of Connection Through Heartfelt Consultations

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The Short Version: From an early age, Devon Loomis knew the wondrous joy of finding a soulmate shouldn’t be a rarity but, rather, a natural culmination of everyone’s destiny. After overcoming his own share of love trials, he now lives blissfully with his ideal partner and wants to help others do the same through his work as The Relationship Coach. Guided by a heart-based methodology, Devon works one-on-one with men, women, and couples around the world who feel there’s something missing in their relationships and want to capture the inner essence of their desires. If a deeper connection to another is what you crave, Devon’s meditation workshops, educational videos, and individual consultations can help you tap into the profound, authentic, and loving bonds you deserve.//

Devon Loomis didn’t always know the recipe of romance and lasting love. It escaped him for years, and he longed to be cherished by someone who also desired the richness of a true connection.

Then one day he decided authenticity was the way forward. By opening himself up and removing mental, emotional, and psychological barriers, he was able to find what so many crave — a soulmate. After more than a decade of exploring what makes these deep, lifelong relationships tick, he decided to help others by becoming The Relationship Coach.

“Growing up as a man in this society, I didn’t understand the way people were interacting romantically and sexually. It didn’t make sense to me. It was so superficial,” he said. “I suffered quite a bit as a result because I sensed that something else was there, a more authentic level of connection.”

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The Relationship Coach, Devon Loomis, seeks to help people experience more profound relationships.

This intuitive teacher is known for creating customized packages of professional services to fit his clients’ unique needs. Love seekers and couples can talk with Devon over the phone to discuss their ideal romantic relationships, explore self-love over Skype chats, or meet him in person to discover sacred tantric techniques. Devon’s caring, trustworthy, and supportive approach helps clients better understand who they are and the type of relationship they’re after — making the quest for love a rich, fulfilling process.

As a relationship coach, Devon shares his natural gift of creating deeper, shared experiences between everyday people. He always knew true love was beneath the surface and wanted to see it represented more widely.

“That calling that people are looking for, that type of connection, really does exist,” Devon said. “It transcends what we see represented in our social landscape.”

Once a salsa instructor, Devon has experience sparking passion within people and helps build bonds between couples with that same dynamic energy and emotion. His desire to reflect the most vulnerable and passionate love possible motivates him to work with people from around the world. For Devon, this career is his dream come true.

Devon Loomis: Profound Insights on Love, Relationships & Sex

In terms of finding romantic love, Devon encourages his clients not to settle. He believes in helping people who are willing to help themselves find relationships that are healing, authentic, supportive, and romantic.

“Love is something we really need to honor and there’s nothing wrong with that,” Devon said. “And all of us, both men and women, really deeply crave that more authentic space of connection within ourselves, and (crave) offering that to another person.”

“A conscious relationship is led by choice, freedom, acceptance, and self-worth.” — Devon Loomis

As much as we may want authentic connections, Devon understands that people often sabotage their own success. As a coach, he helps clients discover the mental roadblocks and detours that keep them from experiencing what he describes as a conscious relationship.

“A conscious relationship is led by choice, freedom, acceptance, and self-worth,” he said. “When you live in an authentic space within yourself, you’re more likely to experience the love you know you deserve.”

Couples Meditation Helps People Be Truly Present

If you’ve struggled with meditation in the past, then Devon has the right technique for you. His Facebook page promotes a step-by-step video tutorial on how to quiet the mind and enter a calm state of tranquility with your partner.

“Couples meditation is one of the core techniques that I teach to couples for bonding, communication, and overall well-being,” Devon said.

Repeating this practice helps you stay engaged in the present moment by feeling your partner’s arms and hands. “It’s very difficult to think and feel at the same time,” he said.

The physical touch of another person is what makes couples meditation so effective. All the hectic thoughts and busy noises running through your mind will gradually quiet down as your attention and awareness comes back to touching your partner. “By feeling them, you’ll end up slipping into that deep state of meditation,” Devon said.

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Devon incorporates principles of tantra into his teachings.

While Devon encourages romantic couples to practice the technique, this type of meditation can be shared in platonic relationships, too.

Psychologists have evidence-based research that supports the positive benefits of meditation for couples. In fact, studies show sitting and meditating can be a helpful boost in our love lives. And reduced stress is one of the most widely known benefits of meditation.

Devon believes less stress equals more positive interactions between you and your partner. Your mind, thoughts, and actions are fully engaged in the present moment to create an intimate space for memorable moments between lovers.

Sacred Sex Lessons Teach Heart-Based Tantra in a Safe & Enriching Space

Devon also teaches clients techniques to reawaken the sensual art of sacred sex. He believes too many of us have experienced a watered-down version of the true, pleasurable, and healing power of lovemaking. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, Devon invites you on a unique journey to better understand your treasure chest of physical intimacy.

His proven methods allow clients to increase the sensitivity levels of their natural senses as well as feel more comfortable within their own skin. A heightened sensitivity level, coupled with self-acceptance and being in tune with one’s heart, makes people vulnerable enough to connect with their partner, whether they’re fully clothed or not. Devon’s lovemaking toolkit is the trustworthy choice to keep long lasting romance in your life.

The benefits of the ancient Hindu practice of Tantra are known worldwide and involve relaxing and employing the holistic elements of yoga and meditation. What’s most appealing about Devon’s form of Tantra is that it’s based solely in love — a pure connection that’s present, conscious, and relatable.

This love language is a positive blend of spirituality and sexuality that deepens one’s self-understanding and empowerment, and guides a person along a sacred path of love and acceptance.

“Bringing Tantra into your life means inviting in more love and presence,” Devon said. “And, yes, this includes your sex life as well.”

He also uses Tantra to help individuals and couples heal from shame, guilt, and suppression when it comes to their sexuality.

“My goal is to really elevate romantic relationships on this planet,” Devon said. “I’m open to exploring however that looks in someone’s life.”

Changing Lives in Just Three One-Hour Sessions

Devon knows money is valuable and respects a client’s time. The journey begins with a free 30-minute consultation, which can be done at the client’s convenience either on the phone or an online video chat. He also sees clients at his office in sunny San Diego.

“Through my work, I have found that it normally takes a few sessions to truly see profound change,” he said. “I ask that new clients commit to three sessions. This is not a financial obligation but rather a personal commitment. If you are not fully satisfied with the results by the third session, that third session is free.”

One of the many benefits of a free consultation is to help you decide whether coaching is the right fit. Devon wants to be the perfect match for your needs and not overlook any areas where additional mental or emotional health support is needed. He works with adult men and women as well as other skillfully trained teachers, healers, and therapists in need of a deeper connection in their personal or professional lives.

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Devon offers an array of coaching services to meet the challenges singles and couples are facing.

“Coaching is only effective when both sides of the coaching-client relationship feel equally engaged in the work,” he said.

Sessions with Devon are usually booked two months in advance, but he makes time to accept new inquires. You can contact him through his website by sending a private message or calling him directly. Devon’s one-hour private coaching sessions start at $100. To get the best offer for your Sacred Sex — Tantra sessions, Devon prefers to have a brief consultation with clients.

For those looking for a total love makeover, Devon created the 21-Day Game Changer. He’ll teach all the essential tools for romantic love, sexual intimacy, soul awareness, and how true love feels from the inside out. This is not meant to be a challenge but a journey of self-exploration that requires vulnerability and the ability to allow positive changes to take place. The 21-Day Game Changer can also be combined with private coaching and Sacred Sex — Tantra sessions. Devon feels his packages offer the perfect match for all lovemaking and soul-searching needs.

Devon Loomis Transcends the Superficial With Authenticity

One of the misconceptions about intimacy is that it solely focuses on physical or sexual encounters. However, Devon teaches clients to broaden their understanding by learning all the fundamental levels of what intimacy is and how it looks in your life.

“People feel uncomfortable being intimate with themselves,” Devon said. “When I say intimate, I’m not referring to anything sexual.”

According to Devon, we can get the most pleasurable rewards by setting an authentic foundation of emotional intimacy.

“The reason people feel uncomfortable when sitting and looking into another person’s eyes without saying a word is that they aren’t familiar with being intimate with themselves,” he said. “It is my job to connect people to the deeper level of themselves.”

“What I want people to know is that the craving for deep love is very possible.” — Devon Loomis, The Relationship Coach

Devon wants people to know that emotional intimacy is not an unattainable goal that’s entangled in a web of mystery. When you’re vulnerable enough to look at yourself from the inside, you can pinpoint your own emotional needs, including forgiveness, and being touched, understood, and nurtured, among other human emotions. No matter how wide and varied your needs, the good news is that you can gain peace and satisfaction, and finally embrace the unconditional love that’s been waiting for you.

If you’re single and looking for love or in a relationship that feels stuck in a rut, The Relationship Coach offers a chance to discover or renew love in your life. And, although every love story is unique, Devon reminds his clients they are not alone. He has walked in their shoes, which is why he creates a comfortable, engaging space that encourages self-expression. Devon says his relatability as a coach keeps him in high demand because he knows how to tap into clients’ unique soulful desires.

“What I want people to know is that the craving for deep love, for that feeling of being at home, is very possible,” he said. “It’s not like winning the lottery; it can be yours if you’re willing to do the work.”

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