Jordan Gray Relationship Consultations On Maximizing Your Love Life

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Jordan Gray: Honest & Empowering Relationship Consultations on How to Maximize Your Love Life

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The Short Version: Jordan Gray has spent his life studying relationships and unlocking the secrets of love, sex, and romance. When he was 22, he put his emotional intelligence to good use by becoming a dating and relationship coach. Now, he provides guidance and support for daters around the world. Over 25,000 men and women have come to Jordan for advice on maintaining loving relationships and finding joy. Jordan’s online video courses and bestselling books cover everything from cute date ideas to mastering sex techniques. Whether he’s writing blog posts or crafting courses, Jordan aims to enlighten men and women about the true nature of a fulfilling love life.

At age 20, Jordan Gray emerged from the ashes of a bad breakup determined to become a relationship expert. As a voracious reader in his teens, he’d read hundreds of self-help books on the subjects of love and sex. He described himself as the quintessential wounded teenager seeking to grow his understanding of relationships.

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Jordan Gray urges singles to adjust their mindset.

“I felt a compulsive need to figure out relationships in order to not be left abandoned in the future,” he said. “What started from a core wound eventually healed into a healthier path of growth.”

When he graduated from college at age 22, Jordan decided to share what he’d learned with others and become a full-time dating coach. He began advising singles on how to get a date, but soon he wanted to go even further and really transform his clients’ lives in a lasting and positive way. So he became a sex and relationship coach focused on getting to the heart of a person’s relationship and life struggles.

Today, Jordan is a five-time Amazon bestseller with dating and relationship books of his own. His published works give readers romantic dating tips in a succinct and accessible format. You can read more of Jordan’s sage advice on his blog, which has seen over 100 million readers.

By drawing from his experiences and his client’s questions, Jordan has written over 500 motivational articles on building intimacy, accepting love, and healing emotional wounds.

“If you want to shed years of emotional baggage, feel loved and cared for, and become your partner’s ultimate partner, then you probably want to keep reading,” Jordan wrote in a post about deep relationships. “The more you can accommodate your partner, while still be conscious of your own mental and emotional needs, the better.”

Dating Courses For High-Achieving Men & Women

Jordan started building his reputation as a relationship expert by running individual coaching sessions. He has worked with hundreds of driven men and women, many of whom are entrepreneurs or self-employed, typically between 25 and 50 years old. His clients tend to be high achievers seeking to master love, sex, and relationships.

Jordan’s approach to dating is about taking ownership and embracing the truth about yourself, mistakes and all.

In his one-on-one coaching, Jordan uses cognitive behavioral therapy to alter the mindset of singles and couples at an impasse. “I take them down the path of most resistance, the path they’re most challenged to face,” he said. “I definitely have a very direct and truthful approach.”

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Jordan has developed an honest and efficient coaching style.

You can book a One-Hour Deep-Dive Coaching Call with Jordan to explore your feelings on a deeper level. The relationship expert aims to spend one session diving into issues and have a lasting impact on his client’s life.

“I aim to work with my clients for one or two sessions because I’m not an enabler who will talk to someone for 28 hours over the course of a month or two,” Jordan explained. “I’m looking to catalyze my clients into actual transformation as efficiently as possible.”

Video Courses to Improve Dating, Relationship & Sex Habits

In addition to individual coaching sessions, Jordan Gray conducts online video courses for daters of all types. Fight Less, Love More teaches daters how to get rid of unnecessary drama in long-term relationships and feel happier in their day-to-day lives. Find Your Ideal Partner challenges singles to stop settling and attract a dream date using effective dating techniques.

Unlike the other two courses, Supercharge Your Sex Life is a gendered product intended for a male audience. Jordan designed this course to teach men about sensual mastery. In five modules, men learn simple exercises to increase their stamina and please their partners in the bedroom.

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Supercharge Your Sex Life offers techniques to master one’s desires.

“Supercharge Your Sex Life is about helping men reconnect with the full spectrum of their sexuality,” Jordan explained. The video course encourages intellectual and shy guys to unleash the beast within and embrace their sexual desires, becoming more capable and attractive lovers in the process.

Jordan’s newest coaching course Inside the Male Mind is his most popular yet. It offers single women a blueprint for finding love and having a man who is truly devoted and affectionate.

“All I can say is WOW and thank you!” said a 55-year-old divorcee in a review. “Your courses have allowed me to open up and feel confident.”

Successfully Helping Clients Go From Single to Married

Jordan has many of his clients go from frustrated singles to happily married couples. He has a knack for getting at the underlying issues of a problem — whether it’s substance abuse or a string of failed romances — so his clients gain clarity on how their emotions impact their behavior.

“Within a week… we were even more in love than we had been in the first few months of our relationship. The program was an absolute god send.” — Phil T., a client from Toronto, Ontario

Jordan told us one of his favorite success stories involves a married couple who came to him at a tumultuous time in their relationship. Full of resentment and bitterness, Noah and his wife were considering splitting up. After working with Jordan for two months, they rediscovered their love for one another and decided to have kids.

“My wife and I largely felt comfortable deciding to have our first child together because Jordan helped us patch up the major holes in our communication,” said Noah. “Honestly, I wouldn’t be a father if it weren’t for him.”

Jordan said he’s kept in touch with the couple over the years and watched them flourish as high-functioning parents still very happy in their marriage. “They went from near-divorce to having children,” he said. “I get the most emotional charge from things like that where you see a big turnaround.”

“Jordan helped me work through some of the most difficult emotions I have ever felt. Because of him, I’m now dating the woman of my dreams.” — Dane M., a 32-year-old client from San Diego, CA

Victoria Gibson, a marketing expert and former client of Jordan’s, described his relationship coaching as an “absolute game-changer.” He listened to her fears and frustrations and motivated her to master her personal life as well as her professional life. “As a successful entrepreneur, I want an epic love life, too, and with Jordan’s help, I am creating a solid foundation for a brilliant relationship,” she said.

Jordan’s expert advice crosses borders and positively impacts people all over the world. Robin from Melbourne, Australia, said a one-hour session with the relationship coach healed her on such a fundamental level that she overcame a 30-year addiction.

“To say that Jordan changed my life is an understatement,” Robin said in a testimonial. “He made me see life through a different lens, which, in turn, made me understand myself better, improve my relationships, succeed more in my business, and fill me with a deep happiness.”

Jordan Gray — An Inspiring Ally for Singles & Couples

In the course of his life, Jordan has experienced a personal revolution — from a heartbroken young man to a confident and newly married 30-something — and he hopes to help others do the same. Years of study and one-on-one conversations have given him unique insight into the dating world. Now, as a sex and relationship coach, he inspires singles and couples to develop more fulfilling relationships by mastering their own emotions and personal truths.

Jordan empowers daters to overcome their insecurities, confront their fears, and stop settling for a mediocre dating life. Through deep coaching sessions and informative video courses, he can put people on a healthier life path.

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Jordan Gray seeks to share his message with daters worldwide.

In the next couple years, Jordan wants to expand his face-to-face consulting services. “Instead of writing online, I want to be offline at retreats and seminars for an international audience,” he told us. The ambitious relationship coach plans to cross borders to bring his expertise to men and women worldwide.

“All I’m concerned with is how do I get people from a place of subtle lies and deception to a place of absolute truth about their lives,” he said. “So that’s what I’m funneling my energy toward.”

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