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Dr. Wendy Walsh
I’m dating this guy and it’s a long-distance relationship. He says all the right things and I could see a future with him, except for two deal-breakers.
One is there is a 10-year age difference that doesn’t really bother me, but I do worry about what my family would think. Deal-breaker number two is there is no physical attraction on my part and he’s so far from what I normally go for.
I don’t know if I’m being shallow or if I could get the brains and the beauty or if I’m settling.
What should I do?
Let me get this straight: You are “dating” a man you are not physically attracted to, your parents would not approve of him and who doesn’t even live in the same city as you.
Have you even gone on a real date with him? If so, what ARE you attracted by?
The only thing you’ve told me is he says the right things. That’s not a basis for a healthy relationship in my opinion. He could be saying only what you want to hear.
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