The Dinkyone Dating Site Supports Men Who Have A Small Penis

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The DinkyOne Dating Site Supports the 50% of Men Who Have a Smaller-Than-Average Sized Penis

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The Short Version: DinkyOne is a free dating site that proves passion comes in all shapes and sizes. This niche network caters to men with small penises — and the online daters who love that about them. Having an undersized member doesn’t stop men from finding sexual partners in this fast-paced and nonjudgmental dating scene. It’s free to create an account on DinkyOne and meet local date prospects who don’t need girth to prove their worth.

The saying “bigger is always better” is definitely not always true. Sometimes bigger is way worse than smaller. For example, a huge sandwich may seem appealing in theory, but once you get it in your hands, the oversized meal can be too much for you to handle.

It can be downright intimidating, not to mention jaw-straining, to have such a big one on your plate, and many people have found that something smaller can still satisfy their appetites.

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The DinkyOne dating platform appeals to men who are modestly endowed.

Okay, I’m not just talking about sandwiches here. Contrary to what some men think, bigger isn’t always better in the dating scene. Men with small penises can be a better fit for some women or men who know that size isn’t the only thing that counts in the bedroom.

DinkyOne is a dating site dedicated to removing the stigma against men with smaller members. Its matchmaking tools help singles find sexual satisfaction without worrying too much about size.

DinkyOne has gotten a lot of attention for its outlandish premise, and it seems to have struck a chord among modern daters. The average penis size is about 5.5 inches, so any man measuring under that is welcome to join DinkyOne and meet people who value them as they are.

By creating an online dating network that praises the undersized, DinkyOne builds men up and encourages them to cultivate a more positive body image.

“Don’t forget that the average size means that 50% of the males in the word are bigger and 50% are smaller,” the DinkyOne team pointed out. “Therefore, 50% of people who are in a relationship have a smaller than average size penis. This means that a smaller penis is not a barrier to dating or having a relationship.”

A Flirtatious Network Where a Man’s Size Isn’t a Big Issue

The DinkyOne dating site may not look like much at first glance, but this high-performance tool has satisfied many customers. Over 60,000 people have joined the network so far. The site has proven to have a big appeal to male users. About 74% of users are male, 24% are female, and 2% are transgender.

The registration process gives newcomers a lot of room to express themselves and report their defining traits. DinkyOne profiles offer 22 non-binary gender options and  nine sexual orientation options.

Unlike mainstream dating sites, DinkyOne asks for a person’s age rather than a birthdate and first name rather than full name to reduce the number of personal details a user has to disclose to set up an account. Don’t worry, men, you don’t have to divulge your size or anything about your appearance in your dating profile.

Once they’ve filled out the basics, members can make selections from a list of 21 descriptors (intelligent, vegan, student, etc.) and 25 interests (fitness, gaming, travel, etc.) to add to their dating profile.

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The DinkyOne celebrates small members, but its membership numbers aren’t all that small.

The DinkyOne team has been in the online dating industry since 2007, so it has a lot insight and guidance to offer single men and women. For instance, in the Upload a Photo page, the team offers advice regarding the best practices for online dating photos. Nude photos are not allowed on the site, but users can crop out their faces if they wish to remain anonymous.

“Your main picture is shown in search results — make sure it’s your best,” the team says. “You can add up to nine, so use them all.”

Members can rank higher in search results by opting in for message alerts and allowing DinkyOne to email them dating tips and updates.

If you want to make a big splash in the local dating pool, you can choose to send a Flirt Message to all users who meet your match criteria for age, location, and appearance. This message must be under 500 characters and contain no graphic language. A smart algorithm reviews all messages sent through the DinkyOne network and flags any that appear suspicious or inappropriate.

Helping Singles Find Dates Who Measure Up to Their Expectations

It’s completely free to set up a DinkyOne dating profile and message local singles. Free members have the run of the dating site and are not obligated to upgrade to a VIP membership, though doing so may up their odds of meeting someone special.

A VIP membership can cost as little as $10.95 for a one-week trial or $10.33 a month for six months. VIP members can send messages to international users and do not have a sending limit.

DinkyOne doesn’t require members to strike a mutual match before they send a flirty message. This is a swiping-free zone where straightforward search filters help compatible singles connect.

A DinkyOne profile

DinkyOne has a simple, mobile-friendly interface that fosters curiosity and exploration.

Everyone on DinkyOne has low expectations when it comes to penis size, so it’s easier for men to feel comfortable flirting and make a good impression in online conversations and offline dates. That can be a huge relief for men who have felt insecure or ashamed of their small size.

“When you’re a smaller man, dating is very complicated,” said a 36-year-old DinkyOne user. “It’s far better to date online with strangers and even better on a dedicated site such as DinkyOne.”

Many women have also reported feeling more at ease knowing the men on DinkyOne won’t have oversized egos when it comes to intimacy.

“Being a dominant woman, the idea of dating a man with a small dick really appeals,” said a 42-year-old woman. “He should be pleasing me orally or with toys.”

“I find sex painful with a man bigger than four inches,” one 28-year-old woman said. She uses DinkyOne to date guys who are just the right size for her.

DinkyOne is part of a growing network of online dating brands, and users can choose to add their profiles to another niche site with one click by going to the Switch Site tab. In addition to gamer dating and trans dating options, the network includes BIGOne, a dating site for men with large penises. Joining such a site can help singles grow their match list and meet a lot of quality people online.

DinkyOne: Good Things Sometimes Come in Small Packages

Whether you’re ordering lunch or choosing a sexual partner, you shouldn’t always assume the biggest is going to be the greatest. It’s all about finding a good fit for you. People with smaller openings may get more satisfaction from something more reasonably sized because it won’t make them stretch too far outside their comfort zone.

DinkyOne offers a safe and private space where men with smaller penises can date without hiding who they are. They’re free to match and chat with people who won’t judge them for being undersized.

“Some men are big, some are average, and some are below average,” DinkyOne Founder David Minns said. “DinkyOne lets smaller men date people outside their circle of friends with the safety that everyone using the site is fully aware. Members can focus on shared interests and get on with dating.”

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