Tinder: Reviews of the Dating App (And 3 Other Choices)

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Tinder: Reviews of the Dating App (And 3 Other Choices)

Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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Tinder’s reviews can vary from person to person, and your overall experience really depends what you’re looking for and how much effort you’re willing to put into it.

A couple of my very best friends are on Tinder, and we enjoy talking about their adventures (the good, the bad, the awkward, and the just plain weird) and comparing notes. There have been fun conversations, perfect dates, and awesome people, but there have also been dick pics, questions about whether they prefer their men cut or uncut (if you know what I mean), and charmers who turned into stalkers.

We get a lot of singles coming to us asking about Tinder — how it works, who it’s for, and if it’s any good — so we’ve gathered reviews from people, online articles, forums, and comments, as well as our experts to answer all of the questions out there. We’ve also provided three alternative apps for you to try along with, or instead of, Tinder, if you decide it’s not for you.

Tinder Reviews | 3 Other Options

Tinder: Free, Fun, Popular & Successful, But Singles Have to Register via Facebook (4.5/5.0 Rating)

The numbers behind Tinder are staggering — the app has more than 50 million members in over 190 countries and who speak 24 different languages. It facilitates 1.6 billion swipes a day, 26 million matches a day (with 30 billion matches to date), and 1.5 million dates a week. Tinder also has four stars on iTunes and Google Play.

By now, most people should be familiar with the way Tinder works. The app pioneered swiping when it launched in 2012, but now that’s pretty much standard operating procedure for online dating.

Tinder is easy to understand and easy to use. You sign up through Facebook, and the app pulls your information (name and age), photos (one main photo and five others from Facebook or your phone), and location. There’s also a section for including things like your gender and where you work or went to school. Tinder also learns from Facebook who your mutual friends are, so it can suggest people who mingle in similar circles but may not have run into you yet.

Tinder will never post anything to Facebook, and no one will be able to tell you have a Tinder account by looking at your Facebook. The dating app uses social media integration to verify identities, not out singles.

Photo of the Tinder signup and a profile

Tinder is available for free via the App Store and Google Play and requires you to have a Facebook account to create a profile.

Tinder will use this information to make match suggestions, and you’ll swipe right on the people you like and left on the people you don’t. Liking or Super Liking a profile is another way to show your interest. Messaging only becomes available after two people swipe right on each other, and members will never know who swiped left on them.

Members also have the option to sync up their Instagram and let potential matches see a portion of their feed such as the 34 most recent photos.

Tinder says it’s good for hookups, dates, and relationships, but because of this somewhat addicting and appearance-based matching system, it tends to be more for hookups.

Tinder Plus and Tinder Gold subscriptions offer access to premium features, including unlimited likes, the ability to unmatch with someone you previously matched with, revisit users you passed on, and access Tinder Passport (browse profiles in other locations, like for vacation, before you get there). Tinder Online is an upcoming free feature that will let singles swipe from any browser, on any device, and anywhere in the world.

Over the years, Tinder has received a lot of positive feedback from singles. Some people have even said they met their future husband or wife on the app, including Selena B., who told SiteJabber.com:

“I just said I do yesterday to my husband who I met, yes, on this app. I want to thank this app over and over. As I’m writing this, I’m laying down on my husband’s chest while he sleeps… because of Tinder.”

On the flip side, some of the biggest complaints we’ve heard and read about Tinder are that singles have to have a Facebook profile to sign up, pricing is based on age and location, and men seem to have less luck than women.

In terms of the Facebook complaint, we can see why it would make some people uncomfortable, but Tinder uses Facebook profiles as a way to prove each member is who they say they are. Plus, the app promises to never post on your Wall on your behalf, so you really have nothing to worry about.

“I would have liked to register my account without the help of Facebook as I wanted to keep it as private as possible.” — David, of Buffalo, New York, said on ConsumerAffairs.com.

Tinder charges different prices based on the user’s age and location. Singles who are over 30 pay more for their subscription than singles in their 20s. Co-Founder Sean Rad explained the app’s unique, and somewhat controversial, pricing model in an article on Business Insider, “Our intent is to provide a discount for our younger users.”

In regards to charging different prices in different locations, Sean said, “It’s not about necessarily optimizing for the dollars we bring in. It’s about optimizing for the number of people we can bring in. If I live in an emerging country or somewhere with an emerging economy, I can’t afford to pay as much as someone who lives in the U.S. There are some things we have to consider.”

Lastly, another common concern about Tinder is that since profiles are so focused on photos, rather than information about the person, more attractive people, particularly women, have the most success. Yes, members have the option to look at others’ bios and Instagrams, but how many people will actually take the time to do that? Almost none.

Since Tinder profiles are so photo-focused, a lot of men who consider themselves to be average-looking say they don’t have as much luck as men who may be more attractive.

Marcus Walker is one of those men who finds this to be a major issue on Tinder, and he wrote on Google Play:

“If you’re male, this is only useful if you’re incredibly attractive. I haven’t had any luck on this app. It seems to be primarily for hookups, not dating. I even tried premium and couldn’t get any matches with a Boost and non-stop swiping. I cannot recommend this app to anyone who’s average or below looking. It’s a self-esteem destroyer, waste of time and money.”

3 Other Options if You Don’t Like Tinder

Below are three other dating apps that offer a good alternative to Tinder. The similarities are that they offer free memberships and location-based matching; among the differences are that you don’t have to sign up through Facebook, and the pricing models don’t support age discrimination and will be standard for all customers.

Zoosk

On this list, Zoosk is the most like Tinder. It’s integrated with Facebook, as well as Google+, but you also have the choice to simply create a profile via the app or homepage if you prefer to use a desktop. You can do this for free — plus the app won’t charge you for browsing, receiving matches, sending likes, and communicating in certain ways.

Zoosk

★★★★★
4.9/5.0
Zoosk

Available on: iOS, Android

  • Relationships: Casual Dates, Relationships
  • Match System: Search for and receive matches
  • About the App: Zoosk is the number one app for finding dates, and if you sync up your Google+ or Facebook account, you can have a profile in seconds. The app has 38 million members and will deliver matches to your inbox on a daily basis based on your behavior such as who you search for, like or don't like, and message. The Carousel is another section for matching (tap the heart if it's a yes and the X if it's a no).
  • Browse Free: View Profiles Now

The user base isn’t as large as Tinder, but it’s still extremely impressive: 38 million from more than 80 countries and who speak 25 different languages. The app’s Carousel feature is just as fun as Tinder’s matching system, too. You’ll be presented with a photo (in addition to the person’s age, location, and gender), and then you’ll tap the heart icon to signal yes or the X to signal no.

Match

We all have heard of Match — after all, it’s been around since 1995 and has led to more dates, relationships, and marriages than any other dating service. Its app hit the scene in the mid-2000s and has proven that Match has still got it. The Match app currently has a 3.5-star rating in the App Store, and our dating experts give it 4.9 stars.

Match.com

★★★★★
4.9/5.0
Match.com

Available on: iOS, Android

  • Relationships: Fun Dates, Serious Relationships
  • Match System: Browse by location, age, interest, and more
  • About the App: Available via the App Store and Google Play, Match is a fantastic app for dates and relationships. With a user base of 30 million singles, Match is where you'll have a high chance of success. It's free to download, create a profile, search for and receive matches around the corner and across the world, find missed connections, "like" people, as well as send and receive winks.
  • Browse Free: View Profiles Now

A basic membership (which offers profile creation, several photo uploads, searching, match recommendations, and Missed Connections, among other features) is 100% free, while premium memberships start as low as $5.46 if you use the 74% discount.

Adult Friend Finder

For those of you who want a hookup, Adult Friend Finder is significantly better for finding one than Tinder is because that’s all this app focuses on. Whether it’s a one-night stand, threesome, swinging partner, affair, or any other kind of casual encounter, Adult Friend Finder can satisfy any sexual desire.

AFF.com

★★★★
3.6/5.0
AFF.com

Available on: iOS, Android

  • Relationships: Hookups Only
  • Match System: Filter by distance, gender, encounter
  • About the App: With 77 million members, Adult Friend Finder is one of the most popular apps for the sex community. It doesn't matter if you're single or part of a couple — you're welcome to search for sex buddies, threesomes, and other casual encounters. And you won't have to pay to do that as well as download the app, fill out a profile, and chat.
  • Browse Free: View Profiles Now

This app has 77 million members — 27 million more than Tinder — and makes your privacy its number one priority. Another component of Adult Friend Finder we like is that you can view members who are online at the same time as you, so you can initiate the conversation and meetup plans right away.

Tinder — A History-Making Dating App, But Don’t Limit Yourself!

My friends like Tinder (even when crazy stuff happens), but they’re also on two or three other dating apps just to see which is best for them and to improve their chances of meeting their ideal date or partner. With all the information above, we’ve given you a lot to think about. But the real test will be downloading Tinder, as well as one or two of the other apps, for yourself and making up your own mind. Good luck!

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