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Amber Brooks is the Editor-in-Chief at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. As an English major at the University of Florida, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about a variety of subjects. Now with over 1,800 lifestyle articles to her name, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com. She has been quoted as a dating expert by The Washington Times, Cosmopolitan, The New York Post, Bustle, Salon, Well+Good, and AskMen.
Amber's Top Posts
1,656 posts • Last Updated 10/7/26
Finding love online as a gay person is no easy feat. Not only do you have a smaller dating pool, but you’re also dealing with mismatched expectations.... Read More »
So much time goes into forming a serious relationship. I know my fiancé better than anyone else, and that’s because of the sheer amount of time we’ve spent... Read More »
I want to talk to you about the filters on eharmony. I get the question all the time from the male clients I coach: “Amie, is it worth paying for the extra... Read More »
Texting can be notorious for accidental misunderstandings. When you’re texting, you’re missing the added context of body language, tonality, and facial... Read More »
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Dating After 55: Older Adults Research Matches, Reject Dishonesty, and Won’t Tolerate Rudeness
Safety always plays a crucial role in relationship success, but it’s especially important to daters over 55, according to DatingAdvice’s new... Read More »
No matter who you are, online dating comes with challenges. Experiences like ghosting or receiving rude messages are basically universal. But for some,... Read More »
No matter who you are or what you like, you can usually find a dating platform to match. Even if you're not exactly single. Anyone who has pursued affairs,... Read More »
When you enter into an alternative lifestyle like ethical non-monogamy, you’ve got a lot of learning to do. One of the trickier aspects is working out how... Read More »
A first date often feels like a high-pressure environment for forming initial impressions. Whether you end up liking your date or not, most people want to... Read More »
While working as a dating coach, I’ve sat across from so many singles over the last 10 years and listened to their concerns. One of the most common fears I... Read More »
It takes a lot of hard work and coordination to maintain a relationship. Beyond finding common ground, shared goals, and chemistry, you need to make your... Read More »
Learning how to present yourself online is a lot different than presenting yourself in person. When you’re face-to-face with someone, you have to worry... Read More »
Dating can sometimes feel like a cold game. You swipe past hundreds of people on dating apps, message dozens, and try to find someone you maybe, just... Read More »
When to Stop Messaging & Move Conversation Off the App: A Step-by-Step Decision Guide for Men
It’s a match! Congratulations on making it through the gauntlet of photo selection, profile writing, swiping, superliking, and first... Read More »
If you ask someone what their intentions are during a dinner date, most people would say to get to know a potential match and establish romantic interest.... Read More »
Every relationship needs healthy boundaries and communication to work. Non-monogamous relationship styles like polyamory are no exception. As... Read More »
From fake profiles to scam artists, singles have to consider a slew of safety concerns in the online dating world. And instead of leaving their security to... Read More »
Infidelity is a nightmare scenario for people in a committed relationship. Such a betrayal can make it difficult to trust your partner... or future... Read More »
Conversations about safe sex can be tricky for anyone — when you're poly and sexually active, there can be added layers to think through. My clients can... Read More »