Succeed With Women By Having The Right Attitude

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Succeed with Women by Having the Right Attitude

Alex Matlock

Written by: Alex Matlock

Alex Matlock

If you want to increase your success with women, visit – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.

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Lillian Castro

Lillian Guevara-Castro brings more than 30 years of journalism experience to ensure DatingAdvice articles have been edited for overall clarity, accuracy, and reader engagement. She has worked at The Atlanta Journal and Constitution, The Gwinnett Daily News, and The Gainesville Sun covering lifestyle topics.

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Having the right attitude toward the women you want to bang is absolutely paramount if you ever expect to have any sort of success.

Women are always able to pick up on the vibe you are giving out and a positive one is attractive because it shows confidence and control.

The right attitude enables you to make the people around you feel good. If everyone around is feeling good and eating up your amazing vibe, you can rest assured all the women around you will also feel it.

This article is going to focus on a few things that can help you keep an upbeat and confident attitude when approaching and talking to women.

Most guys are nervous in their encounters, but these tips should help keep your mind at ease enough for you to be in a confident state.

1. Before you approach a girl…

Realize that she is nothing special and is just an old friend of yours. Think of her as that old, not-so-hot classmate of yours who you never had an interest in but always had a friendly relationship with.

Pretending that you are familiar with any girl will allow you to trick your mind into being more relaxed and comfortable. Not being nervous will allow you to project confidence, a trait that is very attractive.

This system works because you are actually relaxed and comfortable when you are having a conversation with that not-so-hot friend of yours.

2. Know that meeting you is going to make her day.

Whenever you meet a new woman, the point of your interaction is to make her feel good.

Knowing that you are able to make any girl smile on a consistent basis will resonate from within and she will instantly be able to pick up on that.

You only need her to give you a couple of minutes because that is just enough time to impress her with your attitude.

3. Know that she is just a normal person.

Hot women are normal people just like you. They want to meet a nice guy and are trying to find love and happiness in the same way every other person on this world does.

Treat her like a real and normal person, not like some hot alien that speaks a different dialect than you.

Make sure you also show her some respect. Basically, treat and talk to her like you do with your friends. She will appreciate you for it.

“Attitude is an incredibly

important aspect.”

4. Be genuinely interested in her existence.

Focusing on what she is telling you will allow you to forget about the actual interaction. It will allow you to abandon the nervousness that comes with it.

The more you listen to what she is saying, the more you will come up with other related stuff to ask her. You will appear more interested in her as an actual person.

All you have to do is repeat what she is telling you while asking a related question. Again, this will allow you to keep a great attitude toward the conversation because you are actually focusing on it.

5. Never do anything you wouldn’t want someone to do to you.

This is pretty much a standard people skill, but it applies to women even more.

Imagine if you were a woman and a total douchebag approached you and said, “Hey, beautiful!” and slapped you on the ass.

Would you like that done to you? Of course, you would not.

You are obviously not going around slapping women on the ass. The point is if there is anything you would not like said to you, make sure you do not say it to her.

Coming across as a no-class, brain-dead monkey will not help you get in her pants.

6. Talk to everyone.

You should be talking to absolutely every single girl you ever have the chance to talk to.

They do not need to be the hottest women in the world, but the more you do it, the easier it gets to keep a great attitude. This is the secret is to improving your overall people skills.

If you improve your people skills, then you will not ever have to worry about how you present yourself because being around other people becomes natural.

Attitude is an incredibly important aspect. Having the right attitude will always guarantee a lay.

Just keep approaching women. The more you do it, the better you will get at it and the quicker you will see results.

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free ebook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.

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