Tips for Hinge Prompts (With Examples)

Most singles don’t realize that an online dating profile is basically a marketing campaign, and you’re the product. But before you cringe at how that sounds, hear me out! Just like how companies carefully craft ads to attract their ideal customers, your Hinge prompts are your chance to attract your perfect match.

When you think about it, those little prompt answers are prime real estate for showing off who you really are. They’re like your personal billboard on the vast highway of online dating. And just like you wouldn’t waste billboard space, you shouldn’t waste your prompts on generic answers that could apply to literally anyone.

The best prompts aren’t just clever. They’re windows into your heart. They should make someone think, “I want to know more about this person!” or better yet, “I need to message and hear more about this!”

Let me break down some winning prompt strategies based on what you’re looking for.

When it comes to attracting a quality partner, you want a prompt that shows depth and touches on the core values that matter in a relationship. Do you want someone well-traveled? Or is career path and ambition more important? 

Get clear about some of your non-negotiables and dealbreakers. Then, focus on telling that story through your answer.

I really like these prompt answers because they tell a story about a person’s personality, beliefs, values, and interests. 

Just remember that old writing rule: It’s better to show than to tell.

Of all the personality traits out there, many singles I work with say humor is at the top of that list. If humor is your love language, this prompt will let you shine: from witty humor to dad jokes, show your style. 

I do believe humor is subjective, and everyone has a different style with which they enjoy. My advice is when it comes to jokes and references, think of them like a good party story. The best ones are ones everyone can enjoy and join in on.

Don’t you love stimulating conversations? Some of the best prompts start with fun topics that spark an interesting discussion.

I love prompts that are thoughtful. Hopefully your answer is funny or interesting enough for someone to share their point of view or come back with a good recommendation.  

You know what makes us all unique? Our different quirks. Whether you are into cosplay or collecting vintage albums, the “I’m weirdly attracted to” prompt is a chance to share those quirks. For example:

Come up with an answer that highlights your unique personality and showcases what is important to you!

Think of each prompt as an open door to a great conversation, an invitation to share a laugh, or the beginning of an interesting story. This prompt below is super fun because it sparks curiosity and helps the dater learn more about you by playing a game and asking more questions!

The first example gives potential matches multiple angles to start a conversation – they can guess the lie, ask about the scuba diving adventure, or share their own story about speaking different languages.

And the second example challenges people to up their question game.

Many singles tell me they love an adventure. What better way to get creative with your first date than by choosing this prompt? 

These responses work well because the answers open up possibilities for all sorts of different and unique dates. 

Now let’s discuss what you don’t want to do! Remember, authenticity is key. If this isn’t your personality, don’t copy and paste these prompts and answers into your profile. I’d choose the prompts that feel more like your conversation style.

The secret to standing out is being genuinely you and not just another profile in the crowd. 

Instead of saying, “I love to laugh” (which, let’s be honest, who doesn’t?), share that ridiculous story about pranks you’ve pulled or comedians you enjoy.

You also want to stay away from negativity. Skip the list of downers. Rather than list what you don’t want, focus on the qualities you do want to attract. For example, instead of saying  “no drama,” say ”looking for someone grounded.” 

Give your answers room to breathe. While you don’t need to write a novel, sharing a little context lets your personality sparkle. 

Your Hinge prompts are like your personal elevator pitch, but way more fun. They’re your chance to stand out in a sea of “looking for my partner in crime” responses and other lazy profiles. Be specific, be authentic, and most importantly, be memorable.

Remember, you’re not trying to attract everyone — you’re trying to attract your kind of people. Whether that’s fellow history nerds, adventure seekers, or people who appreciate your references to obscure ‘80s movies, your prompts should help your perfect match find you.