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Julie Spira

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Julie Spira is a leading online dating expert and founder of CyberDatingExpert.com. She’s the bestselling author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating and creates irresistible profiles for singles. Follow @JulieSpira or connect on Google+.
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Should Women Send Emails to Men?
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Should Women Send Emails to Men?

By: Julie Spira • 12/18/14

As an online dating expert and coach, one of the questions I get asked frequently from women is if they should initiate...(read more)

The 3 Worst Online Dating Stories I’ve Ever Heard
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The 3 Worst Online Dating Stories I’ve Ever Heard

By: Julie Spira • 11/3/14

Ever since I wrote the book "The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online,"...(read more)

Britney Spears is Now on Tinder (Thanks to Jimmy Fallon)
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Britney Spears is Now on Tinder (Thanks to Jimmy Fallon)

By: Julie Spira • 9/10/14

Tinder’s flame continues to burn brightly with many celebrities and everyday people joining the hot mobile dating...(read more)

My 3 Favorite Online Dating Success Stories
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My 3 Favorite Online Dating Success Stories

By: Julie Spira • 8/11/14

As a dating coach, and one who has spent two decades helping singles find love online, a day doesn’t go by that I...(read more)

4 Ways to Stalk Your Online Date Without Getting Caught
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4 Ways to Stalk Your Online Date Without Getting Caught

By: Julie Spira • 7/14/14

With all of the tools available at our digital fingertips, it’s no wonder your dates are acting like cyber snoops...(read more)

Introducing: Tinder’s Hot New Photo Feature
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Introducing: Tinder’s Hot New Photo Feature

By: Julie Spira • 7/3/14

The flame of popular mobile dating app Tinder continues to burn hot with their new Tinder Moments feature, which is sure...(read more)

Why It’s Your Fault It Takes For-ev-er to Meet a Guy Online
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Why It’s Your Fault It Takes For-ev-er to Meet a Guy Online

By: Julie Spira • 6/9/14

With the large assortment of single men and women online, one would think after posting a great profile, you’d be...(read more)

Getting Burned? When He Should Take His Tinder Down
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Getting Burned? When He Should Take His Tinder Down

By: Julie Spira • 5/23/14

Is Tinder a mobile dating app for singles or a social media app for those who are already attached?
...(read more)

Is This New App What Single Professionals Have Been Waiting For?
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Is This New App What Single Professionals Have Been Waiting For?

By: Julie Spira • 5/9/14

As mobile dating apps continue to heat up, mostly with thanks to Tinder, a new app has hit the dating marketplace called...(read more)

Ignite Your Dating Fire with These 5 Tricks for Tinder
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Ignite Your Dating Fire with These 5 Tricks for Tinder

By: Julie Spira • 4/24/14

Finding love on your mobile phone has become all the rage. We no longer have to go home to check our inboxes to see if...(read more)

OkCupid Asks, How Monogamous Are You?
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OkCupid Asks, How Monogamous Are You?

By: Julie Spira • 3/31/14

Finally, there’s a way to advertise if you’re a player, are serious about finding someone to have an exclusive...(read more)

5 Words That Shouldn’t Be in Your Dating Profile
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5 Words That Shouldn’t Be in Your Dating Profile

By: Julie Spira • 3/10/14

As a follow-up to my recent article on the “5 Words That Should Be in Your Dating Profile,” it’s time to revisit...(read more)

5 Words That Should Be in Your Dating Profile
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5 Words That Should Be in Your Dating Profile

By: Julie Spira • 2/27/14

According to a series of Infographics appearing in Wired magazine, there are some absolute keywords for women and men...(read more)

6 Ways to Find Love Online by Valentine’s Day
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6 Ways to Find Love Online by Valentine’s Day

By: Julie Spira • 2/11/14

It’s Valentine’s week and the good news is Valentine’s Day is on Friday this year, so you have all week long to...(read more)

6 Valentine’s Day Gift Fails Made by Women
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6 Valentine’s Day Gift Fails Made by Women

By: Julie Spira • 1/26/14

Buying a gift for your guy can be challenging any time of the year. On Valentine’s Day, women typically think about...(read more)

The 6 Worst Valentine’s Day Gifts to Give to Women
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The 6 Worst Valentine’s Day Gifts to Give to Women

By: Julie Spira • 1/23/14

Valentine’s Day is around the corner and the pressure surrounding the most romantic day of the year can be tricky and...(read more)

Your Online Dating Checklist for the New Year
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Your Online Dating Checklist for the New Year

By: Julie Spira • 1/14/14

By now, most singles have been receiving numerous emails from online dating sites to encourage them to sign up in...(read more)

Why is this Month Different from Others for Online Daters?
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Why is this Month Different from Others for Online Daters?

By: Julie Spira • 1/9/14

My phone is ringing non-stop and I have been busy working with singles to create the perfect 2014 online dating...(read more)

Should You Reconnect with an Ex Online for the Holidays?
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Should You Reconnect with an Ex Online for the Holidays?

By: Julie Spira • 12/20/13

The holidays can be an up and down time for singles looking for love online.
...(read more)

How to Find Love Online This Holiday Season
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How to Find Love Online This Holiday Season

By: Julie Spira • 12/11/13

If the cheery sounds of holiday music are making you blue, I’m here to tell you that you absolutely can find someone...(read more)

Group Photo or Solo: The Cheerleader Effect
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Group Photo or Solo: The Cheerleader Effect

By: Julie Spira • 12/5/13

New research from the University of California, San Diego conducted by Drew Walker and Edward Vul suggests online daters...(read more)

Would You Create a Fake Girlfriend?
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Would You Create a Fake Girlfriend?

By: Julie Spira • 11/26/13

I know the holidays are stressful. Singles go home for Thanksgiving or Christmas to see friends and family and too often...(read more)

Are You Too Picky?
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Are You Too Picky?

By: Julie Spira • 11/14/13

The conversation started out with, “I haven’t had a date in three years due to work commitments,” from an...(read more)

10 New Rules for Posting Dating Profile Pictures
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10 New Rules for Posting Dating Profile Pictures

By: Julie Spira • 11/7/13

Posting photos on social media sites and on your online dating profiles has become one of the top favorite features for...(read more)

If Online Dating is So Popular, Why Are You Still Single?
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If Online Dating is So Popular, Why Are You Still Single?

By: Julie Spira • 10/26/13

The hot news in the online dating industry is the independent release of a Pew Research survey, which shows 0nline...(read more)

Did You Know 50% of Singles Do This On Their Dating Profiles?
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Did You Know 50% of Singles Do This On Their Dating Profiles?

By: Julie Spira • 10/10/13

As online dating sites become more and more popular, the tendency to fib, lie or create a profile designed for the way...(read more)

Does Online Dating Make You Anxious?
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Does Online Dating Make You Anxious?

By: Julie Spira • 9/22/13

With the change of seasons, there’s been an increase of singles reactivating their online dating profiles.
...(read more)

Should You Post Selfies on Your Online Dating Profile?
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Should You Post Selfies on Your Online Dating Profile?

By: Julie Spira • 9/12/13

I love technology. There is no doubt the iPhone has made dating a whole lot easier and so much more fun.
...(read more)

Why She Won’t Respond to Your Email
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Why She Won’t Respond to Your Email

By: Julie Spira • 9/4/13

If you think the “selfie” photo in the mirror turned her off, that is not the only reason she is taking a pass on...(read more)

Why Women Should Send the First Email
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Why Women Should Send the First Email

By: Julie Spira • 8/24/13

Most women take a passive approach to online dating. Often we think about the old dating rules, which clearly state men...(read more)

How to Stop Obsessing About Your Online Date
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How to Stop Obsessing About Your Online Date

By: Julie Spira • 8/18/13

I’m working with a woman who’s so anxious about her online dating experience that she logs on to dating sites three...(read more)

7 Ways to Have a Perfect Video Date
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7 Ways to Have a Perfect Video Date

By: Julie Spira • 8/10/13

With online dating, new mobile apps and technology can enhance your love life in a variety of ways. Often your date...(read more)

Would You Send a Facebook Friend Request Before a Date?
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Would You Send a Facebook Friend Request Before a Date?

By: Julie Spira • 8/2/13

Call me old-fashioned, but at least my guy and I are on the same digital page.
...(read more)

How Long Should You Wait to Respond to a Text?
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How Long Should You Wait to Respond to a Text?

By: Julie Spira • 7/25/13

He loves me. He loves me not.
...(read more)

Tinder Isn’t Just for iPhone Users Anymore
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Tinder Isn’t Just for iPhone Users Anymore

By: Julie Spira • 7/17/13

Are you envious of your iPhone friends who are flirting away on the Tinder mobile dating app?
...(read more)

Does Your Credit Score Matter in Dating?
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Does Your Credit Score Matter in Dating?

By: Julie Spira • 7/10/13

It’s no secret the top reasons a relationship will end are due to sex and money.
...(read more)

Why Online AND Offline Dating Will Find You Love
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Why Online AND Offline Dating Will Find You Love

By: Julie Spira • 6/27/13

Whenever I see a happy couple, I always ask them how they met.
...(read more)

Plenty of Fish Shies Away from Plenty of Hookups
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Plenty of Fish Shies Away from Plenty of Hookups

By: Julie Spira • 6/17/13

Recently I wrote an article on how to find love on Plenty of Fish to help you make the most of your online dating...(read more)

Does Online Dating Lead to Stronger Marriages?
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Does Online Dating Lead to Stronger Marriages?

By: Julie Spira • 6/6/13

You've probably seen the happy success couples on TV who met through an online dating site and may realize the stigma...(read more)

Would You Propose on Twitter?
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Would You Propose on Twitter?

By: Julie Spira • 5/30/13

With social media, the ability to find love has expanded to a variety of flavors, including Twitter, Facebook,...(read more)

“What Do His Texts Mean?!”
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“What Do His Texts Mean?!”

By: Julie Spira • 5/17/13

Digital dating can be fun and flirty, but it also comes with a huge amount of anxiety when you don’t hear the other...(read more)

How to Cook Up an Online Dating Profile Like Martha Stewart
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How to Cook Up an Online Dating Profile Like Martha Stewart

By: Julie Spira • 4/30/13

In an interview with Matt Lauer on "The Today Show," Martha Stewart admitted she almost tried online dating but didn’t...(read more)

Looking to Hook Up While Waiting for Your Flight?
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Looking to Hook Up While Waiting for Your Flight?

By: Julie Spira • 4/26/13

Falling in love on an airplane can be a very romantic experience. I’ve known some men who’ve actually requested to...(read more)

Serious or Serial Online Dater? How Many People You Should Date at Once
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Serious or Serial Online Dater? How Many People You Should Date at Once

By: Julie Spira • 4/20/13

When you first join an online dating site, it’s exciting to see an overflowing inbox of men or women who are...(read more)

Taking Down His Online Dating Profile (Part 2)
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Taking Down His Online Dating Profile (Part 2)

By: Julie Spira • 4/11/13

Last week I shared the first part of an ongoing series about online dating profile unplugging. It’s always one of the...(read more)

Should I Ask Him to Take Down His Profile?
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Should I Ask Him to Take Down His Profile?

By: Julie Spira • 4/5/13

Your online dating profile is your digital billboard to tell other members you’re available and are willing to be...(read more)

Does Your Online Dating Profile Need a Digital Facelift This Spring?
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Does Your Online Dating Profile Need a Digital Facelift This Spring?

By: Julie Spira • 3/28/13

It’s springtime and love is in the air, as well as on your computers and mobile phones.
...(read more)

How to Ramp Up Your Online Dating Profile
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How to Ramp Up Your Online Dating Profile

By: Julie Spira • 3/21/13

If a little digital birdie told you that you could find the love of your life online but it would require one hour a day...(read more)

How to Get Lucky Online for St. Patrick’s Day
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How to Get Lucky Online for St. Patrick’s Day

By: Julie Spira • 3/13/13

Second to Halloween, St. Patrick’s Day can be one of the most fun days for singles to celebrate, flirt and connect...(read more)

Is Mobile Dating Just for Hookups?
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Is Mobile Dating Just for Hookups?

By: Julie Spira • 3/6/13

Since our mobile phones have become the accessory du jour, it’s no surprise online daters are spending more time...(read more)

How to Break Up with Your Online Date
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How to Break Up with Your Online Date

By: Julie Spira • 2/28/13

Call me old fashioned, but just because your relationship started online, does it have to end online? Shouldn’t there...(read more)

Finding Love on Plenty of Fish
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Finding Love on Plenty of Fish

By: Julie Spira • 2/21/13

There are thousands of online dating sites to choose from and single daters are casting a wide net on Plenty of Fish.
...(read more)

Who Goes on a First Online Date on Valentine’s Day?
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Who Goes on a First Online Date on Valentine’s Day?

By: Julie Spira • 2/13/13

Finding a new relationship can be challenging, but the digital landscape has never been easier.
...(read more)

Online Dating and Religion
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Online Dating and Religion

By: Julie Spira • 2/5/13

Does religion matter to you while looking for love online? In a survey of 2,700 U.S. singles conducted by JDate and...(read more)

5 Ways to Find a Date by Valentine’s Day
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5 Ways to Find a Date by Valentine’s Day

By: Julie Spira • 1/29/13

With the Super Bowl around the corner, it’s a reminder to most women Valentine’s Day is only 11 days later.
...(read more)

The Manti Te’o Story: How Can You Avoid Getting Duped Online?
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The Manti Te’o Story: How Can You Avoid Getting Duped Online?

By: Julie Spira • 1/22/13

If you’ve been following the Manti Te’o story, you’re probably wondering how the Heisman Trophy runner-up could...(read more)

Why You Need a Catchy Screen Name
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Why You Need a Catchy Screen Name

By: Julie Spira • 1/15/13

Some online dating sites allow you to select your own screen name, subject to availability. Others use your first name...(read more)

How to Organize Your Online Dates
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How to Organize Your Online Dates

By: Julie Spira • 1/9/13

As a digital matchmaker and online dating expert, if I could grant you one wish, it would be for you to find your dream...(read more)

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